so i went to the movies with this girl, madeout with her the whole time, talked 2 her everyday because she always texts me or calls me, she told me she really likes me, but she gets mad at me alot for the littlest things, she doesnt know if she wants 2 be my gf because she thinks am 2 much of a flirt, she says she needs time to think about it, and its starting to piss me off. What should i do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
most confusing girl ive ever met
- Thread starter trickerp
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
if its starting to piss you off..back offand give her the time she needs, go about your busines being you, if she wants you, she knows where to get you, you dont need to do anything in my opinion. she sounds abit clingy and controling from your description, do you want that?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tell her you have been busy, drop the odd girls name in, nothing incriminating, just get her thinking, let her know you had fun, make it up if you can get away with it, let he rknow you were out with people and not sat at home moping
