"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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most confusing girl ive ever met

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so i went to the movies with this girl, madeout with her the whole time, talked 2 her everyday because she always texts me or calls me, she told me she really likes me, but she gets mad at me alot for the littlest things, she doesnt know if she wants 2 be my gf because she thinks am 2 much of a flirt, she says she needs time to think about it, and its starting to piss me off. What should i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if its starting to piss you off..back offand give her the time she needs, go about your busines being you, if she wants you, she knows where to get you, you dont need to do anything in my opinion. she sounds abit clingy and controling from your description, do you want that?
 

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yeah i kind of like that, but if i text her back she doesnt reply, should i always text her back when she talks 2 me?
 

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yes but use a huge delay and keep it vague but teasing
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tell her you have been busy, drop the odd girls name in, nothing incriminating, just get her thinking, let her know you had fun, make it up if you can get away with it, let he rknow you were out with people and not sat at home moping
 

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Whenever you are "confused" about a girl, it's because she has another guy and she is trying to "choose" between the two of you. Hence, the mixed signals.
 

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yeah, im starting to think this girl isnt worth the trouble, shes not fun enough for me.
 
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