so i went to the movies with this girl, madeout with her the whole time, talked 2 her everyday because she always texts me or calls me, she told me she really likes me, but she gets mad at me alot for the littlest things, she doesnt know if she wants 2 be my gf because she thinks am 2 much of a flirt, she says she needs time to think about it, and its starting to piss me off. What should i do?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
most confusing girl ive ever met
- Thread starter trickerp
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
if its starting to piss you off..back offand give her the time she needs, go about your busines being you, if she wants you, she knows where to get you, you dont need to do anything in my opinion. she sounds abit clingy and controling from your description, do you want that?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tell her you have been busy, drop the odd girls name in, nothing incriminating, just get her thinking, let her know you had fun, make it up if you can get away with it, let he rknow you were out with people and not sat at home moping
