"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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most common nice guy things we should avoid when talking to women ?

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most common nice guy things we should avoid when talking to women ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only thing you have to know about nice guy behavior is that it is perceived by women to be manipulative on a subconscious level. If you are being "nice" in the hope of getting something in return... then women know this intuitively and it WILL NOT WORK. She will know you are needy and weak and manipulate you.

You should only be "nice" to giving flexible women who are head over heels in love with you.
 
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RangerMIke said:
The only thing you have to know about nice guy behavior is that it is perceived by women to be manipulative on a subconscious level. If you are being "nice" in the hope of getting something in return... then women know this intuitively and it WILL NOT WORK. She will know you are needy and weak and manipulate you.

You should only be "nice" to giving flexible women who are head over heels in love with you.
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THIS. Do and say things because YOU want to without any expectations not because you want to get her attention or get in her good graces (sex or relationship wise).
 
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Agreeing to help her with ANYTHING. Applies to girls you're meeting for the first time - a lot of guys will be talking to a new girl and she'll say something like, "oh man, I have to get my car fixed" or "I'm new in town and trying to find an agent" (I live in L.A., people), and the guy will come back with something like "oh, well I'm really good with cars, I can take a look at it" or "Well, I have a friend who's an agent, I can see if he'll look at your work." Do this, and she will NOT hook up with you. Why? 'Cause she hasn't had to do anything to earn your help, and in her head she'll be thinking "what a great resource - welp, I can't screw this arrangement up by sleeping with him!"
 
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