"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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most common nice guy things we should avoid when talking to women ?

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most common nice guy things we should avoid when talking to women ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The only thing you have to know about nice guy behavior is that it is perceived by women to be manipulative on a subconscious level. If you are being "nice" in the hope of getting something in return... then women know this intuitively and it WILL NOT WORK. She will know you are needy and weak and manipulate you.

You should only be "nice" to giving flexible women who are head over heels in love with you.
 
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RangerMIke said:
The only thing you have to know about nice guy behavior is that it is perceived by women to be manipulative on a subconscious level. If you are being "nice" in the hope of getting something in return... then women know this intuitively and it WILL NOT WORK. She will know you are needy and weak and manipulate you.

You should only be "nice" to giving flexible women who are head over heels in love with you.
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THIS. Do and say things because YOU want to without any expectations not because you want to get her attention or get in her good graces (sex or relationship wise).
 
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Agreeing to help her with ANYTHING. Applies to girls you're meeting for the first time - a lot of guys will be talking to a new girl and she'll say something like, "oh man, I have to get my car fixed" or "I'm new in town and trying to find an agent" (I live in L.A., people), and the guy will come back with something like "oh, well I'm really good with cars, I can take a look at it" or "Well, I have a friend who's an agent, I can see if he'll look at your work." Do this, and she will NOT hook up with you. Why? 'Cause she hasn't had to do anything to earn your help, and in her head she'll be thinking "what a great resource - welp, I can't screw this arrangement up by sleeping with him!"
 
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