"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Buddy I’ve known for about 15 years. Always zero fvcks and could get pretty much any woman he wanted. Last year he finds out an ex of his was pregnant, she won’t have an abortion so they end up having the kid and get married.

Talking to him today and he tells me whenever he can he basically camps out in the bathroom for an hour looking at trucks and drinking a beer to get away from the wife’s nagging. Don’t see it ending well at this rate. Crazy how fast life can change
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting married because you got a woman pregnant is NOT a valid reason to get married. I know several guys who did the same thing, none of them really loved the women but felt "obligated". The marriages all were not good, filled with constant arguing and fighting and all ended in divorce after a few years, two with another kid on top of the first.

Your friends will end the same. Note to anyone else, NEVER get married for this reason alone. It might seem like the noble thing to do and the "right" thing to do. I assure you it is not and it will be your personal living hell for as long as you stay married...almost from the start of the honeymoon.

Far better to part as friends and simply coparent as best as possible. You cannot force yourself to love someone you dont. You cannot force someone who isn't right for you to be right for you. Having a kid doesn't change any of those things, people think it will bring them closer but really it ultimately only makes things harder and will further act to cause stresses on the relationship. If there are cracks in the relationship already those cracks will become craters.
 
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dk1990S111 said:
Buddy I’ve known for about 15 years. Always zero fvcks and could get pretty much any woman he wanted. Last year he finds out an ex of his was pregnant, she won’t have an abortion so they end up having the kid and get married.

Talking to him today and he tells me whenever he can he basically camps out in the bathroom for an hour looking at trucks and drinking a beer to get away from the wife’s nagging. Don’t see it ending well at this rate. Crazy how fast life can change
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He is not alpha , maybe some handsome guy who could easily get laid. His wife most likely nagging him because he is not living his true self
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wasnt sure about putting specifics here but I doubt he’d ever be on here lol

He was an army ranger, excelled in that. Came back, moved out of the US and ended up having a chick move from the states to be with him even though they had never met, survival skills to go on a multi day trip to the middle of nowhere, got into street bikes/racing and was constantly one of the fastest always pushing his limits so crashed a few bikes but always got right back on. Got down to like 2-3% body fat 6’2” at like 190 lbs I think when I was working out with him. Not saying this like the bs parents say, but when he put his mind to something he has no problem mastering it.
 
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dk1990S111 said:
Got down to like 2-3% body fat 6’2” at like 190 lbs I think when I was working out with him. Not saying this like the bs parents say, but when he put his mind to something he has no problem mastering it.
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Like using the juice right? A man that use steroids to build muscle and get ripped (2-3 % body fat ain't natural body fat), totally alpha, totally self-confident, he doesn't even have enough testosterone to build his body. How much viagra does he take?
 
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Getting married with the woman because you got her pregnant is a recipe not to follow.
 
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Like using the juice right? A man that use steroids to build muscle and get ripped (2-3 % body fat ain't natural body fat), totally alpha, totally self-confident, he doesn't even have enough testosterone to build his body. How much viagra does he take?
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I know he said he got some roids when in the army but years later when we were working out as far as I know he wasn’t using any. Just diet dialed in (lived and worked with him for a while and saw his meal preps), 100% dedication to the gym sometimes twice a day. I know he thought about it but from when we talked about it all I can say is he didn’t use any during that time as far as I know.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy how fast life can change
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One time I was talking to a guy at a party and what started out as a regular conversation took a really dark turn.

Seen the guy plenty of times before, fairly athletic, always had his wife and kids.

Blue collar worker, good golfer.

After a few beers he told me his backstory.

Star high school athlete, football, lots of scholarships lined up, lots of potential.

His girl got pregnant, used every trick in the book to reel him in.

Three kids later, his hopes and dreams had been crushed.

After telling me his story, he looked at his wife in the other room, shook his head and whispered:

"She ruined my life, man."
 
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dk1990S111 said:
I know he said he got some roids when in the army but years later when we were working out as far as I know he wasn’t using any. Just diet dialed in (lived and worked with him for a while and saw his meal preps), 100% dedication to the gym sometimes twice a day. I know he thought about it but from when we talked about it all I can say is he didn’t use any during that time as far as I know.
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The things are two:

1)It's impossible for a natural to train twice in the same day, even sometimes as you say

2)it impossible for a natural to get a 2-3% body fat without steroids. Or you don't what a 2-3% body fat body looks like

A lot of people on juice says are natural, but you can spot from the body fat, the skin and how big the traps are. You don't even need to know the weight or see if they got gyno. Than after a week or two, a guy on juice goes off cycle, looses a lot of mass you can't imagine,

The best natural can't get a body fat lower than 8% without loosing muscles.

The juice is beta
 
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