"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi all, this is my first time posting but I have visited this board for a few months now. I need some help on this because I'm dumbfounded and not sure what to do.

So, I've been going out with this girl for a week now and she mentioned to me that she is a mormon. At first, I was kind of ok with it but now I'm hesitant because mormons aren't supposed to do anything to hurt their bodies. For example, no smoking, drinking, piercing, lying. The bad stuff. I don't consider myself badass but sometimes I like to tap some bong and drink. What kind of activities can I do with her without offending her religion?

Thanks
-Stumped .....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LoL...i dunno man. She probably doesn't shave either lool.

Hopefully for you she is one of them girls tht is waiting to rebel and go crazy and stuff.
 

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She'll go nuts when she hits college -- if she doesn't head off to BYU. While she's still under mommy and daddy's control, you have almost zero chance of tapping that @ss. Don't even mention smoking, drinking, anything. Concentrate on what you two have in common, become her friend, and hope she goes to whatever college you go to.

Christian girls rock in bed.
 

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What do you think? Honestly, post what you think you could do. If you say you dont know go kill yourself.
 

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No drugs, alcohol. Check.
No sex. Check.
No piercing, lying. Check.
If you know what you can do without offending the religion, here's a tip. Keep your clothes on. Don't really heavily makeout with her.
Don't touch any private spots, including the breasts. Grinding, dancing really really close is offensive.
So... just treat her like a friend. You can still kiss her and all, but if you kiss her like you plan to have sex with her, I wouldn't suggest it. Besides that, ask her what you can do, before you do anything. Just make sure its clear what's good and bad with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Athletic stuff, Movies (not R), outdoor stuff, just think of what she's interested in and apply it.
 

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Actaully, she is applying to BYU. Yea, I guess I can just turn down the horniness and be casual or something. I just wanted a change of scenery once in a while.

Thanks for ur help doods.

-brdd
 

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damn man that'd be tuff to go out with a mormon. i cant imagine doing it personally, but if u like her enuff then go for it
 

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I think you can score man, remember we are all humans, we all have urgess and horneyness. I think just treat her like any other girl. OH YEH, you could try going to church with her, if they let others come in.
 

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Don't pick your college just because this girl is going there...it aint worth it man lol....please don't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha

i knew these mormon girl who used to drink, occasionally smoke, have sex and flash her titties, but she was pretty sorry after doing any of that **** that she eventually just quit doing all of that.
 

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nahh.....I wont go to BYU, hell no. I'm going to CSULB but I've only been going out with her for a week, maybe she'll be more comfortable around me and let loose. I'll see how it turns out.

-brdd
 
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