"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been checking his channel out he's been releasing some really good videos lately. I just grabbed a random one that happened to be no fap I haven't even watched it yet let's not get political with our ballsacks now

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know what increases Testosterone based on actual real world studies?

1) Strength Training
2) Sleeping 8 hours a night
3) Not eating processed foods/sugars

Anyone talking about how to increase T levels that isn't doing those 3 things is doing the equivalent of looking in the couch cushions for a few quarters instead of going to their wallet that has 20 dollar bills in it.

Forget no fap. That makes little to no difference. Do the 3 things I listed and your T levels will be good unless you have some type of hormonal issue where your body doesn't produce it naturally.

For every hour under 8 that you sleep on a given night, your T level drops by 12.5%

Eating sugary foods can cause a 25% drop in T levels within an hour.

Most people are killing their T levels on a daily basis but then look for some silliness to fix it when they ignore the actual problem causing it.
 
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You know what increases Testosterone based on actual real world studies?

1) Strength Training
2) Sleeping 8 hours a night
3) Not eating processed foods/sugars
Doing those 3 things + No Fap/No Porn is ideal.
 

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Doing those 3 things + No Fap/No Porn is ideal.
No fap is just nonsense in regards to this. It will help for 7 days and then the body will just lower it because it thinks you aren't using it. The body is smart. It doesn't waste time on things that aren't being used. It attempts to get you to "use" the short term T boost you get but if you don't then it lowers it back down and likely lower than it was before.
 

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No fap is just nonsense in regards to this. It will help for 7 days and then the body will just lower it because it thinks you aren't using it. The body is smart. It doesn't waste time on things that aren't being used. It attempts to get you to "use" the short term T boost you get but if you don't then it lowers it back down and likely lower than it was before.
If you are practicing no fap and no porn, it is best to be getting laid while that is going on to keep up T levels.

Lifting, healthy eating, no fap, no porn is a way to boost T in the short term. With the short term boost in aggressiveness, approach like a maniac and use that high volume of approaches to get laid and keep getting laid.

Easier said than done.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've always been amused by the no fap "religion" and increasing T levels.

First, it's been proven that looking at pictures of naked women can immediately increase T levels by significant amounts. The effect is surely larger than that of no fap. Ideally, you'd be spending your time with naked women in real life, but if that's not possible at the moment, then at least look at pictures of them whenever you feel like it.

Second, you need to release the fluids that build up in your system. No fap is surely not healthy in that regard.

Third, if you have high T levels, you will be horny all the time. No fap would become unbearable. I believe MPMD actually did a video on this (about trying no fap while on steroids).
 

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No fap is just nonsense in regards to this. It will help for 7 days and then the body will just lower it because it thinks you aren't using it. The body is smart. It doesn't waste time on things that aren't being used. It attempts to get you to "use" the short term T boost you get but if you don't then it lowers it back down and likely lower than it was before.
If you are practicing no fap and no porn, it is best to be getting laid while that is going on to keep up T levels.

Lifting, healthy eating, no fap, no porn is a way to boost T in the short term. With the short term boost in aggressiveness, approach like a maniac and use that high volume of approaches to get laid and keep getting laid.

Easier said than done.
I've always been amused by the no fap "religion" and increasing T levels.

First, it's been proven that looking at pictures of naked women can immediately increase T levels by significant amounts. The effect is surely larger than that of no fap. Ideally, you'd be spending your time with naked women in real life, but if that's not possible at the moment, then at least look at pictures of them whenever you feel like it.

Second, you need to release the fluids that build up in your system. No fap is surely not healthy in that regard.

Third, if you have high T levels, you will be horny all the time. No fap would become unbearable. I believe MPMD actually did a video on this (about trying no fap while on steroids).
Glad to see you guys are in disagreement with an opinion nobody here has lol
 
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