"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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More women on the planet than men?

djjizzyjeff

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More women on the planet than men? Every chick I know who's hot (even the whacky ones) are literally ALL wifed up. And it's not even by some "hot" dudes either..

I don't think I know a single hot chick who doesn't already have a boyfriend. Chicks I work with etc. Hell even the other dudes talk and it's like clockwork more chicks with boyfriends than dudes with girlfriends..

And these chicks WILL flirt regardless. It's almost like they need some other dude or dudes attention like little kids if their BF isn't around. Of course they'd completely deny it if you pressed them on it.

IMO it's a waste of time to give them attention or try to "game" chicks with BFs. They'll either use you for attention or never wind up being gf material for you in the end. I keep it cordial but don't overdo the attention and even ignore them at times. Not that it matters as there's always some other dudes who'll be circling around them to give them that ego boost till they're back with their BF.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's just a statistic. Women, on average live longer than men so theoretically there will be more. If you break it down by age, race, location, marital status, etc., it will probably be a different story.
 

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We also have a significant number of "single but not actively looking" females.

These are women that are publicly "single" but have a steady FWB or a few FWB plates.

If you ask about her relationship status, she's single and taking a break from men since her breakup or divorce. In other words, she's a "good girl" who is celibate because she's not in a relationship lol.

But in reality, she's secretly F-ing her ex or a bartender or a cop or a coworker. So with her sexual needs being met, she has little motivation to meet and date guys unless one pops up in her greater social circle that has serious looks/height and/or money.

So as far as the dating scene goes, she's sort of on the sidelines.

Of course, if she doesn't find her dream man, she will eventually try to make her FWB her bf because she'll get attached from all the sex.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Of course, if she doesn't find dream man, she will eventually try to make her FWB her bf because she'll get attached from all sex.
Dunno man,..women are getting less and less attached from sex these days, lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct said:
We also have a significant number of "single but not actively looking" females.

These are women that are publicly "single" but have a steady FWB or a few FWB plates.

If you ask about her relationship status, she's single and taking a break from men since her breakup or divorce. In other words, she's a "good girl" who is celibate because she's not in a relationship lol.

But in reality, she's secretly F-ing her ex or a bartender or a cop or a coworker. So with her sexual needs being met, she has little motivation to meet and date guys unless one pops up in her greater social circle that has serious looks/height and/or money.

So as far as the dating scene goes, she's sort of on the sidelines.

Of course, if she doesn't find her dream man, she will eventually try to make her FWB her bf because she'll get attached from all the sex.
Especially the cop part. If the dude is like 25 to 35 built and good looking. Cops get pvssy practically thrown at them due to the "power" they have over other men and the handcuff etc. thing.

Women I'm sure know a few cops and would be willing to give it up to use that card if they get pulled over in the future. "I'm friends with officer ___".

I'd be willing to bet a lot of dudes on here know of afew chicks who've "dated" cops. I'd even say they're more in demand for the hotties than even doctors, lawyers.
 
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