"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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More to life than sosuave.

SPEAK

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I have been an avid reader of this forum for over a year now. I admit that it has changed my life and I am forever grateful for the start it gave me on my path.

I have become obsessed with all of this stuff and have become very outcome dependant. When I first started I was just focussing on self-improvement, however now I am looking for results.

After re-reading one of my favorite books, "The Way of the Peaceful Warrior" I have rediscovered what I had once thought lost about myself. Life is a special thing, ridiculously complicated, and ridiculously simple.

I am taking a hiatus form this website and from my result-seeking mindset for at least a year. I am going to start enjoying life again and stop stressing about my petty girl problems, for problems are only what you make them.

I implore all of you to continue on your path of self-improvement and create your self to be the person you want to be. Always remember that an expert in anything dedicates their life to something and a master dedicates that something to their life.

See you all in a year,

SPEAK
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JustLurk

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SPEAK said:
After re-reading one of my favorite books, "The Way of the Peaceful Warrior" I have rediscovered what I had once thought lost about myself. Life is a special thing, ridiculously complicated, and ridiculously simple.

SPEAK
Aah, warriorship. I have a similar book. Some of it is good advice and may let you finally have self-esteem not based on external factors, i.e. internal peace, but some of that advice is dangerous, and can mess you up if you misunderstand or take it as fully correct. I advise caution.
 

AlexLefty

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Ahh noo speak haha
I do agree with you that there is more to life than sosuave, and girls. Something I've realized and been able to do over the past little while is just be myself. Of course, not my old AFC self, but my new self, inspired by SS and other things. I've gone through the ego stage, where I thought I was the sh1t cause I found this site and had all this knowledge, I've gone through the ****y stage, induced by articles about C&F and the like, and I've gone through the desperate stage, but now, I've finally arrived at MY stage. Where I'm just me, incorporated with all the more attractive attributes and skills that I've learned. I'm not really self conciseness because I'm just doing my own thang. I'm happy and just natural. That's not to say that I don't care about girls, but I'm more focused on me. I think you might be trying to find your own me stage. Hopefully it will come to you soon enough, and hopefully you return to us on SS, good luck and have fun finding yourself.
 
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