"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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more talking the better rapport u can get?

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well i always have problems with creating rapport and havin girls flake on me,

no it didnt happen this week but i been experienmenting..

i notice the girls who had flaked on me were the girls that i talked less with..

i would get the number and wait a few days then talk to them on the phone for 5 min then ask to go out,

then i had the other girls where i would talk to them 4 times the most.. a week then ask to go out and they showed better percentage than the girls who flaked..

and my conclusion was:
u gotta build the interest with the girls to elimate the chances of flake.. u cant get them interested by for just talkin to them 3 min and gettin their number.. they know u want them.. they expect u to chase them. and if their not interest enough they will flake u.. we all know girls love the chase so they have other boys after them.. but when u show them u are better and giving them just a taste of ur personailty then it can do alot.. im not sayin talk for an hour a day.. the max i talked was probably around 10-20 min.. 4 times a week.. and it showed alot of improvement. their IL level grew ALOT.
sometimes they refuse to let me go!

i ldont like the theory of gettin the number then make the first phone call a few days later and asking for a date
of couse i wait about two days before i give them a call but i believe u should talk to them for at least a week. give them a lil taste of U so on the dates they will be in for suprise..

they will wonder "omg hes soo funny. i wonder how he is in person!"
"wow he sounds sexy.. ic ant wait to see whats hes all about"

like, I always wonder, why would girls waste their time on something they dont know about when they can get more guys? what are we to them when they first meet us? there isnt any writting on our forehead sayin PICK ME! I"LL MAKE U *** IN UR PANTS!!

i believe that its our job to make the intro.. give them a lil taste make a lil effort THEN sit back and let them chase u.. if they dont chase u then they aint worth it since u put the effort in they should too

anyone notice this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i believe that its our job to make the intro.. give them a lil taste make a lil effort THEN sit back and let them chase u.. if they dont chase u then they aint worth it since u put the effort in they should too

this is great
 

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poohead said:
this is great
thanks

i been wondering it for about two weeks
 

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63 views and no replies wtf guys

thought this was a DJ discussion area!
 

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bump

man come on i wanna discuss this!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta said:
63 views and no replies wtf guys

thought this was a DJ discussion area!
Go find a DJ and we'll discuss this with him! :crackup:

Sorry, you asked for it.... ;)

It's now how much you say, it's what you say. What did you talk about with the ones that didn't flake on you?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Go find a DJ and we'll discuss this with him! :crackup:

Sorry, you asked for it.... ;)

It's now how much you say, it's what you say. What did you talk about with the ones that didn't flake on you?
same **** i talk with all of them
 

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yeah, in my experience, its much better to build some rapport before getting the phone number ...i always take from 20 to 25 mins from meeting her, attracting her, building some rapport... and then getting her phone #
 
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