"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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immrtlwun

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I posted a few weeks ago that the friend (by friend i mean they are on the same swim team) of a girl that i was into liked me too. I work with the friend and therefore see her a lot more and we flirt quite a bit. I'm thinking about going after her now. We went bowling the other night on a sorta double date (my friend and I, her and a friend of hers) and it went pretty well.

What do you guys think? Should I go for the friend who's more into me and a little better looking or just leave them both alone to prevent that dreaded high school drama?

For those of you who didn't read my previous post, I went on 2 or 3 dates with the first girl. Then her friend, the one that i work with gave me her # (without my asking for it) and told me to call her some time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jerky Boi

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It's all up to you bro. If you feel like you made a better connection, go with the 2nd girl, but if you still wanna see if things will work, go on dates with the 1st. If the first wasn't that into you in the first place, more than likely she won't care about you being with her friend, but it's all up to you.
 
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Whatever you do..... don't avoid it because it might cause "drama"
GIRLS LOVE DRAMA! It sometimes makes them cry or throw fits but they really do love it....
 
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