"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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immrtlwun

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I posted a few weeks ago that the friend (by friend i mean they are on the same swim team) of a girl that i was into liked me too. I work with the friend and therefore see her a lot more and we flirt quite a bit. I'm thinking about going after her now. We went bowling the other night on a sorta double date (my friend and I, her and a friend of hers) and it went pretty well.

What do you guys think? Should I go for the friend who's more into me and a little better looking or just leave them both alone to prevent that dreaded high school drama?

For those of you who didn't read my previous post, I went on 2 or 3 dates with the first girl. Then her friend, the one that i work with gave me her # (without my asking for it) and told me to call her some time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jerky Boi

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It's all up to you bro. If you feel like you made a better connection, go with the 2nd girl, but if you still wanna see if things will work, go on dates with the 1st. If the first wasn't that into you in the first place, more than likely she won't care about you being with her friend, but it's all up to you.
 
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Whatever you do..... don't avoid it because it might cause "drama"
GIRLS LOVE DRAMA! It sometimes makes them cry or throw fits but they really do love it....
 
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