"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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immrtlwun

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I posted a few weeks ago that the friend (by friend i mean they are on the same swim team) of a girl that i was into liked me too. I work with the friend and therefore see her a lot more and we flirt quite a bit. I'm thinking about going after her now. We went bowling the other night on a sorta double date (my friend and I, her and a friend of hers) and it went pretty well.

What do you guys think? Should I go for the friend who's more into me and a little better looking or just leave them both alone to prevent that dreaded high school drama?

For those of you who didn't read my previous post, I went on 2 or 3 dates with the first girl. Then her friend, the one that i work with gave me her # (without my asking for it) and told me to call her some time.
 

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Jerky Boi

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It's all up to you bro. If you feel like you made a better connection, go with the 2nd girl, but if you still wanna see if things will work, go on dates with the 1st. If the first wasn't that into you in the first place, more than likely she won't care about you being with her friend, but it's all up to you.
 
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Whatever you do..... don't avoid it because it might cause "drama"
GIRLS LOVE DRAMA! It sometimes makes them cry or throw fits but they really do love it....
 
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