"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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More problems,plus highschool life sucks!!!

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Ok,so its been very hard not thinking about that hot girl at the comic store,but I decided not to think about her,and just pretty much Next her,and next time I go to the comic store I will just ignore her.So anyways yesterday early in the morning at school,I went to the science fair.Yeah I decided to not go to the comic store,and guess what I won at the science fair,I did very good.And I got a compliment from these hot chick for winning she said I should help her on the next science fair,So I said Yes and she gave me her number.:D So after the science fair,it was lunch time.So normally I seat with my friends,who also go to the comic store with me,they are good at warcraft but not better then me ;) But so I went to the popular kids table,where the football players and hot girls,are so I went to say hi to the girl who I saw at the science fair today.But she something that literay hurt my feelings,when I said hey,so when do you want to work on the project?" Then she said" Umm do I know you,your some loser,get away from me" And everyone started laughing on that table,her girlfriends even said who is these kid,itsn't he that nerdy kid who is always soo weird."They all laughed some of the football players said these as well"Hey the loser table is all the way back there". I didn't even say anything, I just walked away my feelings were sooo hurt and damage.So when I went back to my regular table,my friends say whats wrong,what happen to you,did those guys say something.So I literay put my head down and didn't say nothing.Highschool sucks,seriously everyone calls me a nerd or loser,and the popular people think that as well.So I'm here to get help,my life officially sucks,is there any way I can ever be like a normaly human being or highschooler?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dreamx said:
Ok,so its been very hard not thinking about that hot girl at the comic store,but I decided not to think about her,and just pretty much Next her,and next time I go to the comic store I will just ignore her.So anyways yesterday early in the morning at school,I went to the science fair.Yeah I decided to not go to the comic store,and guess what I won at the science fair,I did very good.And I got a compliment from these hot chick for winning she said I should help her on the next science fair,So I said Yes and she gave me her number.:D So after the science fair,it was lunch time.So normally I seat with my friends,who also go to the comic store with me,they are good at warcraft but not better then me ;) But so I went to the popular kids table,where the football players and hot girls,are so I went to say hi to the girl who I saw at the science fair today.But she something that literay hurt my feelings,when I said hey,so when do you want to work on the project?" Then she said" Umm do I know you,your some loser,get away from me" And everyone started laughing on that table,her girlfriends even said who is these kid,itsn't he that nerdy kid who is always soo weird."They all laughed some of the football players said these as well"Hey the loser table is all the way back there". I didn't even say anything, I just walked away my feelings were sooo hurt and damage.So when I went back to my regular table,my friends say whats wrong,what happen to you,did those guys say something.So I literay put my head down and didn't say nothing.Highschool sucks,seriously everyone calls me a nerd or loser,and the popular people think that as well.So I'm here to get help,my life officially sucks,is there any way I can ever be like a normaly human being or highschooler?

Erm...

Well, first off, that girl was probably just kidding around. She sounds like a moody *****. Even if she was serious about you helping her (as in making the assumption that the number she gave you wasn't fake) she's obviously "too cool" to be seen with you, in her book at least.

That's her fault. She's the one who won't be getting a decent mark on her next science project, and she's also the one that missed out on a chance with you, Prince Charming (see Pook's work in the DJ Bible).

What happened to you sounds really embaressing, but don't let it get you down. In all seriousness, most hot women are totally shallow, moody, backstabbing *****es. This is yet another girl that you need to NEXT and yet another lesson: Don't be easily available. You say that you tried to talk to her at lunch after the science fair, right? Well, in my mind at least, you probably should have talked to her over the phone rather than in person, and at least 2 days afterwards.

Not to mention... It sounds like, once again, you were being used. I know it sucks, and I know it happens alot, but, it's life. You've got to learn how to spot people that are using you, or, failing that, at least learn to accept that people will try to do that and move on.

I know High School can REALLY suck sometimes, but it doesn't have to be this bad. If you look at the Bible, there are plenty of suggestions on how to get ahead in High School, and I suggest that you look there.
 

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Dude, nerds get ****talked all the time in High School. If you aren't actually a troll (which your previous posts, horrible grammar and cliched stories hint at), then accept the fact that you will not get with the popular girls as long as you continue to be who you are. It might sound lame, but to get the popular girls you need to transform yourself into someone that would not make them ridiculed in front of their friends.
 

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man highschool sucks,I bet the girl doesn't even want to be seeing with me,everyone expect for my friends think I'm a nerd or loser.These **** puts me into too much stress!
 

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Do me a favor:

if that b1tch comes up to you again and says "hey wanna work on the science project?" just say, "do I know you?" then walk away into the sunset.

or you should whipped out her number like, "well is this your number?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You want to be excepted by people? Well there is only one way you can do that, drop the comics and warcraft and star trek and the rest of it. Its your choice, but it is what is holding you back. You will need to talk aobut other stuff, im gona take a guess and say your fashion sense probably needs changeing. It could also mean finding new freinds since your current ones will hold you back. Its up to you if you want to do all that, but remember it will be almost imposable to convince people at your school you are not a nerd, only once you change school or go off to college and get a fresh chance, then you can change, but right now its next to imposable.
 
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