"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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More problems,plus highschool life sucks!!!

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Ok,so its been very hard not thinking about that hot girl at the comic store,but I decided not to think about her,and just pretty much Next her,and next time I go to the comic store I will just ignore her.So anyways yesterday early in the morning at school,I went to the science fair.Yeah I decided to not go to the comic store,and guess what I won at the science fair,I did very good.And I got a compliment from these hot chick for winning she said I should help her on the next science fair,So I said Yes and she gave me her number.:D So after the science fair,it was lunch time.So normally I seat with my friends,who also go to the comic store with me,they are good at warcraft but not better then me ;) But so I went to the popular kids table,where the football players and hot girls,are so I went to say hi to the girl who I saw at the science fair today.But she something that literay hurt my feelings,when I said hey,so when do you want to work on the project?" Then she said" Umm do I know you,your some loser,get away from me" And everyone started laughing on that table,her girlfriends even said who is these kid,itsn't he that nerdy kid who is always soo weird."They all laughed some of the football players said these as well"Hey the loser table is all the way back there". I didn't even say anything, I just walked away my feelings were sooo hurt and damage.So when I went back to my regular table,my friends say whats wrong,what happen to you,did those guys say something.So I literay put my head down and didn't say nothing.Highschool sucks,seriously everyone calls me a nerd or loser,and the popular people think that as well.So I'm here to get help,my life officially sucks,is there any way I can ever be like a normaly human being or highschooler?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dreamx said:
Ok,so its been very hard not thinking about that hot girl at the comic store,but I decided not to think about her,and just pretty much Next her,and next time I go to the comic store I will just ignore her.So anyways yesterday early in the morning at school,I went to the science fair.Yeah I decided to not go to the comic store,and guess what I won at the science fair,I did very good.And I got a compliment from these hot chick for winning she said I should help her on the next science fair,So I said Yes and she gave me her number.:D So after the science fair,it was lunch time.So normally I seat with my friends,who also go to the comic store with me,they are good at warcraft but not better then me ;) But so I went to the popular kids table,where the football players and hot girls,are so I went to say hi to the girl who I saw at the science fair today.But she something that literay hurt my feelings,when I said hey,so when do you want to work on the project?" Then she said" Umm do I know you,your some loser,get away from me" And everyone started laughing on that table,her girlfriends even said who is these kid,itsn't he that nerdy kid who is always soo weird."They all laughed some of the football players said these as well"Hey the loser table is all the way back there". I didn't even say anything, I just walked away my feelings were sooo hurt and damage.So when I went back to my regular table,my friends say whats wrong,what happen to you,did those guys say something.So I literay put my head down and didn't say nothing.Highschool sucks,seriously everyone calls me a nerd or loser,and the popular people think that as well.So I'm here to get help,my life officially sucks,is there any way I can ever be like a normaly human being or highschooler?

Erm...

Well, first off, that girl was probably just kidding around. She sounds like a moody *****. Even if she was serious about you helping her (as in making the assumption that the number she gave you wasn't fake) she's obviously "too cool" to be seen with you, in her book at least.

That's her fault. She's the one who won't be getting a decent mark on her next science project, and she's also the one that missed out on a chance with you, Prince Charming (see Pook's work in the DJ Bible).

What happened to you sounds really embaressing, but don't let it get you down. In all seriousness, most hot women are totally shallow, moody, backstabbing *****es. This is yet another girl that you need to NEXT and yet another lesson: Don't be easily available. You say that you tried to talk to her at lunch after the science fair, right? Well, in my mind at least, you probably should have talked to her over the phone rather than in person, and at least 2 days afterwards.

Not to mention... It sounds like, once again, you were being used. I know it sucks, and I know it happens alot, but, it's life. You've got to learn how to spot people that are using you, or, failing that, at least learn to accept that people will try to do that and move on.

I know High School can REALLY suck sometimes, but it doesn't have to be this bad. If you look at the Bible, there are plenty of suggestions on how to get ahead in High School, and I suggest that you look there.
 

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Dude, nerds get ****talked all the time in High School. If you aren't actually a troll (which your previous posts, horrible grammar and cliched stories hint at), then accept the fact that you will not get with the popular girls as long as you continue to be who you are. It might sound lame, but to get the popular girls you need to transform yourself into someone that would not make them ridiculed in front of their friends.
 

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man highschool sucks,I bet the girl doesn't even want to be seeing with me,everyone expect for my friends think I'm a nerd or loser.These **** puts me into too much stress!
 

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Do me a favor:

if that b1tch comes up to you again and says "hey wanna work on the science project?" just say, "do I know you?" then walk away into the sunset.

or you should whipped out her number like, "well is this your number?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You want to be excepted by people? Well there is only one way you can do that, drop the comics and warcraft and star trek and the rest of it. Its your choice, but it is what is holding you back. You will need to talk aobut other stuff, im gona take a guess and say your fashion sense probably needs changeing. It could also mean finding new freinds since your current ones will hold you back. Its up to you if you want to do all that, but remember it will be almost imposable to convince people at your school you are not a nerd, only once you change school or go off to college and get a fresh chance, then you can change, but right now its next to imposable.
 
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