"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spiegel549

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Signed up on POF and its ****ing great lol...set my profile, pics etc exaclty like Naughty Ninja's threads said to do. With my own flare of course. Broads are responding to the stupidest dumbest cutsie **** ever LOL.

Need some new ideas!!

Already used Naughty Ninja's openers, and have used 3 or 4 myself!

I feel like you need to use certain openers for certain broads. Its funny I am writing to fat chicks just for laughs saying I wanna stuff her stocking this Christmas and they are spamming my inbox HAHAHAHA.

On a serious note lol, any good openers to break the ice with the real hot ones???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naughty Ninja

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spiegel549 said:
Signed up on POF and its ****ing great lol...set my profile, pics etc exaclty like Naughty Ninja's threads said to do. With my own flare of course. Broads are responding to the stupidest dumbest cutsie **** ever LOL.

Need some new ideas!!

Already used Naughty Ninja's openers, and have used 3 or 4 myself!

I feel like you need to use certain openers for certain broads. Its funny I am writing to fat chicks just for laughs saying I wanna stuff her stocking this Christmas and they are spamming my inbox HAHAHAHA.

On a serious note lol, any good openers to break the ice with the real hot ones???

If they think you look good enough in your profile they'll respond to almost anything positive. Other than that if they don't think you're hot enough you can send almost anything and they will read delete. Which is why having your best pictures up and spamming is the only way to go. As quick as they can read delete...you spam and go for what your best looking pictures get you.

Like Nismo's said before: A Man's POF profile is only as good as his worst picture.
 

zinc4

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Naughty Ninja said:
If they think you look good enough in your profile they'll respond to almost anything positive. Other than that if they don't think you're hot enough you can send almost anything and they will read delete. Which is why having your best pictures up and spamming is the only way to go. As quick as they can read delete...you spam and go for what your best looking pictures get you.

Like Nismo's said before: A Man's POF profile is only as good as his worst picture.
Exactly, i have sat beside a hot chick who i was semi dating before while she went through her pof mail and only the ones with pictures that she deemed cute or hot would be the ones not deleted. They get a sh%t ton of messages everyday and they are all immediately screened on looks alone.
 

spiegel549

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I have been getting some pretty good responses and a few numbers with my pictures (I am in really good shape)

I have noticed this, and maybe its something I am doing wrong. I try to close in 3 messages, get there number, and not be a back and forth chat buddy but the hotter ones that I did that with they would stop responding once I asked for there number.

I experimented with 1 or 2 were I went maybe 6-10 messages, got them more comfortable and then they gave me there numbers easier then trying to close in 3 messages.

Any tips?
 

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Yup, I already posted the same thing with the extra couple messages...success rate went much higher
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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incognito42

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I prefer sticking to 3 messages. You can go 3 messages or 10 messages and some chicks are just gonna stop responding once you ask for the number no matter how many messages you do. 3 messages and if they stop responding I move on. I undoubtedly missed out on a number here and there by only using 3 messGes, but I like to keep things moving and not get bogged down. Besides, the way I look at it if they need more than 3 messages it will be more likely they waste my time aNd are just attniom wh0res looking for pen pals
 

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spiegel549 said:
Signed up on POF and its ****ing great lol...set my profile, pics etc exaclty like Naughty Ninja's threads said to do. With my own flare of course. Broads are responding to the stupidest dumbest cutsie **** ever LOL.

Need some new ideas!!

Already used Naughty Ninja's openers, and have used 3 or 4 myself!

I feel like you need to use certain openers for certain broads. Its funny I am writing to fat chicks just for laughs saying I wanna stuff her stocking this Christmas and they are spamming my inbox HAHAHAHA.

On a serious note lol, any good openers to break the ice with the real hot ones???

As far as your convos go. I mostly got numbers within three to four back and forths from countless chicks when I had my profile up. (You can go past that but just remember the more time you waste on one chick the less time you can be spamming many others and grabbing numbers quicker)

The ones who give up their numbers quick like the way you look and want to fvck.

The ones who take longer "may" take longer to fvck. Nothing is set in stone though.

IF you feel like it and it works a little better for you and the chick looks pretty hot go for a few more messages if its working.

99.999% no matter how good they look on POF aren't worth putting too much effort into. (though you aren't trying to date or wife them up.)

If you get a better return rate with a few more messages. Frig it. Keep doing it.

As far as for hot chicks if they think you're hot enough spam them with the updated version of my original message by Marmel. (If they reply to it you know they want to get fvcked.)

"Well, I was hoping you'd be on my nice list so I could stuff your stocking for Xmas, but it seems you are on my naughty list, so it's going to be a spanking instead..."


Or something like:

I sent a letter to Santa asking him to put you under my Xmas tree wrapped in only a bow ;)

Or:

I'd love to play Santa with someone as hot as you and taste your cookie under my tree all night long.... ;)

Mix and match or create something sexual with a holiday themed message and spam them out testing for results. It's playful but getting to the point that you go for what you want and they'll get a good fvcking for the holidays.

Plus lots of chicks online are desperate for the holidays for a BF. If you look good enough and go for them in beast mode...They'll be dripping.

Just experiment with any of the above or something sexual and playful with a holiday themed message for your opener. Then go for the number.

You know when you meet them after rsponding to something like the above they'll be svcking the stripes off your "candy cane" in no time. :up:
 
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