"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shagnscoob

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you guys realize that as a don juan your essentialy the male equivalent of a sl*t?


its dawning on me now. and not to mention, especially in the high school arena, where your selection is SOMEWHAT limited (especially if you dont drive and go for girls that live close by).

girls catch on to this stuff quick. because in highschool girls dont always know how to keep their mouths shut. but its true what they say, we are manwh0res. does anyone feel differently? id like to hear what you guys think about it?

or even your responses to being called a manwh0re?

of all the things about DJing, this is the one that interests me the most.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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if you really wanna define a DJ in this way.... we're more of a player than a manwh0re.... a player gets girls to attract him... a manwh0re basically pays girls... anyways whats wrong with this sort of thing.... not a lot of guys these days know how to attract girls like we do
 

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Being a DJ is not just about getting laid, it is about yourself as well, making you a better person, and getting rid of the inner wussy that many guys have. I dont know where you get manwh0re from, you dont have to fvck every girl that you go out with. Deuce Bigolo is a manwh0re, he sleeps with women for money
 

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^LMAO.... i jus had to reply..

"Hi im duece biggalo, male giggalo.."

"Hi im duece biggalo, male giggalo.."

"Hi im duece.... BIGGEST LADY IVE EVER SEEN!!"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Brian20o2

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Being a DJ is not just about getting laid, it is about yourself as well, making you a better person, and getting rid of the inner wussy that many guys have.
Amen

How is it that ppl on here misinterpret the meaning of being a DJ and think of it as being a PUA (Pickup Artist)
 

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The first thing that came to mind when comparing a slut to a DJ is the role that females and males have in our society, of males being the "pursuer" and females being "pursued." It's rather easy for a decent looking chick to get a guy by actually approaching him, while guys have to work to get what they want. That's point number one, and point two is what has been said before: DJs are not just Pick Up Artists, they excel in life as well.
 

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girls dont care about all that stuff about excelling in life as well. they hate players. period. (at least alot of girls ive met dont).
 

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I think "player" fame actually attracts a lot of women. Of course they will say they don't though! Never believe what the women you know tell you.

Anything out of the ordinary or unique or different attracts women. Excluding things like your manhood measuring 1 inch. They like to think they have captured a commodity.

Women will want to think they can tame you, etc.

Anyways, I don't think of it as being a manwh0re.

While women will play tricks with mens emotions, at least we intend on dating/screwing them. Women will do it just for kicks or to add us to their little AFC group boosting her ego.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends on the chick. I for one am not a player. I could be. I am not. I am not a man*****. Not yet atleast.
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
i dont think women like players. howver bing a DJ is more like being that sucessful hansom smooth, james bond like guy that all women just awe at

thats the point buddy. no woman would ever want to touch that sh1t cuz hes been around the block so many times.


no women will think your a commodity if youve already hooked up with all her friends.
 
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