"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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shagnscoob

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you guys realize that as a don juan your essentialy the male equivalent of a sl*t?


its dawning on me now. and not to mention, especially in the high school arena, where your selection is SOMEWHAT limited (especially if you dont drive and go for girls that live close by).

girls catch on to this stuff quick. because in highschool girls dont always know how to keep their mouths shut. but its true what they say, we are manwh0res. does anyone feel differently? id like to hear what you guys think about it?

or even your responses to being called a manwh0re?

of all the things about DJing, this is the one that interests me the most.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if you really wanna define a DJ in this way.... we're more of a player than a manwh0re.... a player gets girls to attract him... a manwh0re basically pays girls... anyways whats wrong with this sort of thing.... not a lot of guys these days know how to attract girls like we do
 

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Being a DJ is not just about getting laid, it is about yourself as well, making you a better person, and getting rid of the inner wussy that many guys have. I dont know where you get manwh0re from, you dont have to fvck every girl that you go out with. Deuce Bigolo is a manwh0re, he sleeps with women for money
 

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^LMAO.... i jus had to reply..

"Hi im duece biggalo, male giggalo.."

"Hi im duece biggalo, male giggalo.."

"Hi im duece.... BIGGEST LADY IVE EVER SEEN!!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brian20o2

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Being a DJ is not just about getting laid, it is about yourself as well, making you a better person, and getting rid of the inner wussy that many guys have.
Amen

How is it that ppl on here misinterpret the meaning of being a DJ and think of it as being a PUA (Pickup Artist)
 

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The first thing that came to mind when comparing a slut to a DJ is the role that females and males have in our society, of males being the "pursuer" and females being "pursued." It's rather easy for a decent looking chick to get a guy by actually approaching him, while guys have to work to get what they want. That's point number one, and point two is what has been said before: DJs are not just Pick Up Artists, they excel in life as well.
 

shagnscoob

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girls dont care about all that stuff about excelling in life as well. they hate players. period. (at least alot of girls ive met dont).
 

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I think "player" fame actually attracts a lot of women. Of course they will say they don't though! Never believe what the women you know tell you.

Anything out of the ordinary or unique or different attracts women. Excluding things like your manhood measuring 1 inch. They like to think they have captured a commodity.

Women will want to think they can tame you, etc.

Anyways, I don't think of it as being a manwh0re.

While women will play tricks with mens emotions, at least we intend on dating/screwing them. Women will do it just for kicks or to add us to their little AFC group boosting her ego.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends on the chick. I for one am not a player. I could be. I am not. I am not a man*****. Not yet atleast.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
i dont think women like players. howver bing a DJ is more like being that sucessful hansom smooth, james bond like guy that all women just awe at

thats the point buddy. no woman would ever want to touch that sh1t cuz hes been around the block so many times.


no women will think your a commodity if youve already hooked up with all her friends.
 
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