"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's a list of movies with actors who embody the qualities of a "great man."

1) Bullit, starring Steve McQueen and Jacqueline Bisset. See how composed and calm Bullit (Steve McQuen) appears even under the most dangerous and stressful situations. Also, see how he listens and responds to Jackie's emotional pleadings. Smooth.
2) The Maltese Falcon, starring Humphrey Bogart. Nobody plays coold private eyes like Humphrey. He's tough with bad guys and smooth with women. Also watch Humphrey in other movies like Casablanca and The Big Sleep.
3) The Presidio, starring Mark Harmon, Meg Ryan, and Sean Connery. See how Mark Harmon handles Meg's Oprah-like melodrama. Sean Connery plays Meg's father and, despite Sean's overbearing and intimidating presence, Mark is able to deal with him as an equal.
4) The Thomas Crown Affair. Watch either the old version (the one with Steve McQueen and Faye Dunaway) or the new version (the one with Pierce Brosnan and Renee Russo). See how calm and confident Thomas Crown is.
5) There are various versions of "The Count of Monte Cristo", but one of my favorites is a tv version made in 1974 starring Richard Chamberlain. He embodies the qualities of a real Don Juan. The version that came out in theaters earlier this year is also good. Also watch the t.v. miniseries starring Gerard Depardieu.
5) The Scarlet Pimpernel, starring Leslie Howard (I think). Chivalry and swashbuckling at its finest. Also watch a newer version of The Scarlet Pimpernel with Steve Andrews (I think) and Jane Seymour from 1982.
6) I can't think of any other movies right now, but I think a lot of the old-time actors embodied admirable male qualities. Watch movies with cool actors like Clint Eastwood, Cary Grant, and Kirk Douglas.

Can you guys think of any other movies with great male role models?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's up Lynx!! There are a lot of good movies out there with great male role models. Personally, I love mob movies and movies with guys like George Clooney who combine strong masculinity, wit, intelligence, and humor. Some of my favorites include Vito and Michael Corleone in the Godfather trilogy. They represent excellent examples of how a man should rule his world. They were great leaders who were fair and could be reasoned with but they were ruthless and calculating when dealing with their enemies. Both understood that a man must wear many hats so to speak in order to be successful in life. They were good family men but were also very astute businessmen (although I don't personally recommend getting into the types of illegal businesses they controlled). They understood that business and pleasure should never be mixed and that taking care of one's business should be the number one priority in a man's life. I must admit I also liked Bruce Willis in the Die Hard Trilogy. He represented the average guy who is forced to do above average things because he had to in order to rise to the challenges he faced. There are many others but hit Blockbuster on the weekend and you'll find some more good ones. Take it easy, and good hunting to ya!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I recently say on old Stallone movie on TV the other day called "Cobra". It's interesting to see the way he got this hot blond girl to chase him
 

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Ok, what about the movie, Cruel Intentions, the way Sebastian Valmont is cool and calm at the same time, I think its one of the greatest examples of a cool DJ.
 

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Ocean's Eleven...Clooney and Brat Pitt were excellent dressers and cool, suave guys. Had the look, the walk and the talk.
 

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Ok,
1. Clooney in "Three Kings"... Very cool.
2. Boghart in "Casablanca". Although the movie's a bit sappy, Boghart's at his DJ best.
3. King in "Viva Las Vegas", an excellent example on how to play a woman.
4. Pacino in "Scarface".
5. Pacino in "Devil's Advocate".
I'll try to come up with more later...
 

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There are a lot of good movies out there with great male role models.
You're so right, and thanks everybody for all the suggestions. I watched a great movie last weekend called "The Unbearable Lightness of Being." It's great and would be a wonderful date movie. A lot of movies with good male role models have lots of violence, but this one doesn't so you can watch it with women. Read the novel by Milan Kundera first and get some background on the situation in Czechoslovakia in 1968 to understand the movie. Another movie that's great to watch with chicks is "Henry and June." It's about a womanizing writer named Henry Miller. You guys should read his books. They're hilarious. Once again, guys, thanks for the great suggestions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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@Chockster - yeah, RIGHT!! Cruel intentions! Tons to copy from Sebastians act... just think of the hugging thing with that psychiatrist *****... him yelling into the ears of that brunette chick s mother... his saying "ciao" with this huge gesture... lots more...
Another good one to copy from is ultracool stylish John Travolta (ick... right... but here, he rocks bigtime) in "Get Shorty"...
Great film anyway.
 

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I can't believe no one has mentioned Russell Crowe in Gladiator!

Maximum is a mushroom-cloud laying muthafvcker, muthafvcker!
 

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I'm surprised no one mentioned Boiler Room.
*Act like you have a nine inch **** and dont take *****

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High School is a lot like prison: the sex you want, you ain't getting, the sex your getting, you don't want.
 

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Cruel Intentions was a great movie. He DID DJ pleanty in the beginning of the movie, but he began to turn into a pvssy towards the end. (He cried like a 6 year old girl). And of course, in Hollywood, his AFC ways eventually got him the girl.

-Blitz
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anyone see Pitch Black...?

I liked Vins attitude and how he used fear to create sexual excitment in the pilot chick... his whole attitude was "You live every moment only cause I let you" and the way he carried himself and body-language....

and he was one bad-ass Muthafu%# !!!

Jin

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Spock from star trek

He never showed emotion toward any situation,even women
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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