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somehow along the line, women were brainwashed into thinking they could just put their foot down and make a man walk a line that was never meant to be walked. the exact line, was a totally different reference that got misconstrued along the way.
now men are afraid to be men in their own homes. women are totally out in left field when it comes to knowing how to be a good wife.
 

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Penny, here's what I think happened.
And it's both the sexes fault really.

Men stopped being Men.
Men stopped being Hunters, Warriors, (good) Lovers, and Proividers.

They just becanme Provisioners. (thanks RT)

Now, pen, you know better than anyone else, what do women really want above all else?

SECURITY.

Now, take a woman, put her through one bad relatuionship after another with an abuser, loser, or wimpus, or drug user.
What happens?
she loses faith in Men. And she no longer believes that Men acan provide her with SECURITY.

Soo what do the women do NOW??

They provide their own damn security thank you very much!

And the Man's presence ther is simply to Provision her material needs.
She runs the household, sets times and dates, chores, arrangements, furnishings, major purchases, billls and household managing, etc etc
The Man??
Er, ahem...the male?

What do he do?

Whatever SHE tell him to DO.

that way the woman has
Marriage STATUS. She has a higher status among her peers becaus eshe is married.
She has a chump husband who does everything she says, that way her Ego and self esteem are boosted.
She has provisions. hat way all her material needs are met. "Your money 's OURS. But MY money is MINE!"
Basically, she has the security and everything else.
THEN...........


she goes out hunting for passion, romance, and good sex...

all behind her husband's back..




THAT is the "norm".


It is horrible.
It is a fate worse than death.
It is a horrid existence for both male and female.
Because NEITHER have what they truly want , desire, and deserve.
 

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interceptor, why did men stop being men, hunters, warriors, lovers and providers?
was it because their wives said... "you can't go off to war and leave me all alone"?
was it because a wife said .."you can't go hunting with your friends and leave me here to do all this housework"?
was it because some wife out there said.."i have a headache "?
was it because the one they loved said .."you do what i say because i make more money than you"?


why did the women start saying things like this to the men in their lives?
why won't they allow their men to be men?

why do men think they must comply to a certain list in order to be loved ?

why are women being taught to put their foot down to everything that a man wants to do or he will take advantage of her?

see how misconstrued it is?
 

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why did men stop being men, hunters, warriors, lovers and providers
Sweetie, because the need for guaranteed Sex and companionship overrode anything that the Male had in his head or heart. This is happening over the course of generations.
Men got suckered into thinking that their highest aim is just to get married and have children and if they pursued their OWN dreams they were branded as selfish.

Anyway, your questions are extremely valid.
And when you factor the woman's NEED for SECURITY above all else, and the Men are made to feel guilty for going out to do what he feels is in his true masculine nature, you've got the crap we have to deal with today.
Men have just somehow put themselves in a place or rather let themselves be put in a place where they do not want to anger the womna.
They have bbeen conditioned to feel that womne have the keys to their happiness.
They bow down to the P***y Power. The Females keep propogating this, and keep emasculating and making their males impotent literally and figuratively.
The men lose thier fight, their will, their testosterone, and cannot fight back. It's a vicious cycle. They don't want to upset the little woman, why?
because she's "giot all the power"!
Don't upset her!
Oh no! We can't have that! Can we?!!

Yet the women cry themselves to sleep realizing they threw their youth away on a man who can't become a man anymore (the poor guy is so beaten down and conditioned he truly believes he can't do anything about it) , and the women try to fight back the guilt they feel for doing that to their husbands. Yet try to rationalize it forcing to believe that it's always the man's fault.
After all what do we read in Cosmo ALL THE TIME??

"How to make your Man do what YOU want?"
"How to tame your Man?"
"Make him do what makes you happy!"
And on and on...
Never mentioning..
"How to empower your man to be the true masculine ideal for you and himself."
NO! Not that!
That's not allowed!
We don't want Men to really believe they have the power and we can't let thme be men! Not after all that hurt they've put us through! never again! keep pulling the wool over their eyes!!! We can't let them think they have the power!!

Sigh........
Men are Femenine, and Women are Masculine.

Say What??!

It's a downward spiral. A vicous cycle. And very very few men and women can escape its clutches.


Men in this age, in the cities especially, don't have those almost Tribal/Primal outlets which keep them in touch with the deepest Masculine consciousness.

So we have generation of men who don't know how to teach their sons what to do with women.

Women keep learning manipulation, seduction, covert communication, body language, ssubtle communactio, subterfuge, etc etc and being abused time after time, and falling into the trap of being attracted to the "bad boy" keeping up their own version of the Infinity Gauntlet, only to find the AFC who will provision for her. yada yada yada

Ugh...
rant over.
 

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I was talking to a friend at work, and they felt they needed a women in their life to steer them in the right direction...

...its so sad
 

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synergy1 said:
I was talking to a friend at work, and they felt they needed a women in their life to steer them in the right direction...

...its so sad
yes that is so sad.
how will someone find the right person to be in their lives if they don't know the direction to the path they want to take in the first place?
ask your friend at work that one.
tell him he needs to figure his life out before he puts a woman in it to tag along.
 

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Great posts Interceptor, Pen

Real good stuff, sadly, so true. Men are feminine, women are now masculine.

Lately at work I've been seeing couples coming in for advising (which I do), in each of these situations, it is the MAN (excuse me, AFC) who has the issue, but the WOMAN does all the talking. That has happened TWICE in the last three days.

Today, an AFC, 18-years old, came in to get some scholarship papers signed. His 18-year old girl -- yes, that's how old she was -- answered all the freaking questions even as I tried to direct everything his way. He cowered under his baseball hat and deferred to her in each and every freaking question. I'd been reading this message board on my off time today, which made my attitude even more than a little upset at this. I had a tough time not rolling my eyes. He couldn't answer any of my questions, it was sick!

Two days ago this guy comes in -- always with his wife -- and he failed to take care of some administrative work, missing a midnight deadline he could've done on the computer, but wouldn't take care of the issue at 11:55 p.m. because he had to wait until his wife came home to ask her whether he should do this. I gasped, his wife chimed in, "We're newlyweds and we want to make all our decisions together." No, SHE wants to make all the decisions. I can hear it now, "No honey, I'm on top -- always!"

And the clincher: This guy is military! Perhaps he's used to taking orders, but still ...

I ran this by my boss and secretary and they agreed that we're seeing more of these couples come into our office each year with the woman wearing the pants. I don't know whether to laugh, cry, or break something.
 

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penkitten said:
interceptor, why did men stop being men
For the same reason that in a place where owning guns is illegal then only criminals will own guns. The honest and law abiding will turn in their guns and become defenseless.

Manhood was outlawed by those with cultual infuance. Manhood was degraded by women and as Plato observed so long ago: if you want young men to learn something first teach it to young women because the young men will do whatever the young women want.

When manhood was outlawed the good and law abiding men gave it up because they were convinced it was the right thing to do. When men are damed for their virtue, no one should be suprised that there are no good men.

Rand said:
evil was impotent...and the only weapon of its triumph was the willingness of the good to serve it
The good men have served it for too long.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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penkitten said:
why are women being taught to put their foot down to everything that a man wants to do or he will take advantage of her?
I've noticed this too!

It's like if I do what I want, and I mean something that effects me and me alone, that I have somehow made the woman a victim!

Or even more broadly, when I tell women (the ones who ask anyhow) that I think marriage/divorse laws are unfair to men they act like I have somehow made them a victim!

I say "this law is unfair" and they see death camps! WTF!?
 

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how come if my husband and boys watch a football game or two, when one child says " what time is xx team playing"?
that my husband tells the child "mom might not want us to watch another game."

i mean, why would i care if they all wanted to watch another game?
what's one more really?

it's not like i have ever said "no you can not watch a game."
it's not like they force me to sit there and learn player stats...
it's not like i'm expected to know what's going on in a game...
i can go on with cleaning the house and whatever chores i have and none of them are going to be under foot, they will be on the couch, out of my way.
and if my chores are done, the girls and i can go make some game munchies.

why would he say anything about me not wanting them to watch the game?
perhaps i should call up his mom, or some ex from the past and ask them why.
because they are the reason why he said it.
surely someone has punished him somehow for wanting to watch football on a sunday afternoon.

good thing he is now married to a girl from the south, where sundays are about football and bbq's and fresh sweet tea.
 

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synergy1 said:
I was talking to a friend at work, and they felt they needed a women in their life to steer them in the right direction...

...its so sad
Women give some guys purpose.
 
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The Unnatural Order Of Things - as contrived since the 1960's!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
The Unnatural Order Of Things - as contrived since the 1960's!

Nuff said really.

Don’t know about you, but from my posts on here we can see the female of the species is the privileged, sex in the western sphere, a part of it, is down to the female need to moan and whinge to her fellow man and not understand the true consequences of her actions, the other part of it, is the institution of law, media, schooling e.t.c that has helped create the system we have today.

Women are empowered, dont you know?

Men are oppressors.

Open your eyes people, only when men and women understand there only fuc*ing each other over, will the whole thing collapse.

Can you relate to this:

Men commit most of the crime.
Men commit rape, most are guilty.
Men are the abusers
Men start and create wars
Men are the oppressors
Men have oppressed women before 1960’s e.t.c
Men control the world.

Now let’s see the other side.

Women are pristine.
Women are the mothers.
Women are the nurtures
Women are the glue of society
Women do not commit crime
Women are not abusers
e.t.c

Anyone can relate to that list.

When in reality the truth is equal to varying degrees for both.

I watched some TV with a girl the other night, 2 adverts where for Women, one advert in between was for a man (how to pull a women, i.e men’s perfume) the two after where for Women (perfume, moisturizer, women’s magazine, women’s tv advert).

Women make up most of the voters, women are the main consumers, the social structure is geared towards women, no wonder men are afraid to be men, if you stand up to your partner, you’re an abuser.

People need to wake the fuc* up.

I watched a programme, police patrol it was called.

On it some girl phoned a police station and said she had been ‘flashed’ by a man.
So the police tracked this guy down, they found he had boarded a train, so the ‘drove’ 25 miles to intercept the train.

When they got to the train, the pulled the man off the train (the station was packed), the guy was with his ‘girlfriend’ and had no clue what was going on, he was a Danish guy who had visited the UK for a few days.

The police took him to the station 25miles back where he spent, 4 hours being interrogated, has the police had to follow it up.

The girl who phoned it in was never once shown to the public. (i expect the girl to be some chav, skank, who wanted to sit down, where by he refuesed or, she asked him to move out of the way, whilst grabbing a coffee in starbucks) You could tell the man was innocent, stupid copper was only following orders, but how empowered he was, you could tell on his face he was thinking 'look at me doing the right thing' to the camera in the hope of a pay rise, or his boss will see, fuc*ed up dam right!

The worst thing is, that arrest was made out to be the ‘police being normal’.

Imagine that if it was a man phoning the police to say ‘a women just flashed at me’ you think the same would happen?

Women are given a lot of power in this society, no wonder there taking charge, it’s because they ‘are’ in charge, to a great degree, its just most don’t know it and that’s the way it was men’t to be.

Dont hate women for it.

If the reverse was true men would be just has stupidly ignorant, but the difference being, men where through-out history the providers, now women have been turned into the 'manipulators'!

The marriage strike that is going on, the media will have you believe it is 'women' who choose it, what a load of complete bolloc*s, marriage benifits women, it has no value to 'man' unless she is a saint, why would women put of marriage when it has no reproccussions on her life unless she has children, even then the kids, in 90% of the case go to her.

come on this is not women hate, this is hate for the society you live in.

People afraid to get married.
Men afraid to stand up for themselves.
Wifes getting FAT and content has the now 'trap' a man.
(i dont know about you but most married over 20 year guys there wifes are FAT).
Women think there walking Britney Spears, where there shi* does not stink.
Men think they have to suplicate to women to get se*.

This is normality, this is fuc*ed up.

Thats why when guys break the mould they get women, they get alot of women, has they are no longer programmed to worship the prize of women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Jonwon, the women have no power!! It is the moneyed European/Anglo/Germanic/Nordic men who rule and have brought forth this Homo/Hor agenda - do you know why??
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Jonwon, the women have no power!! It is the moneyed European/Anglo/Germanic/Nordic men who rule and have brought forth this Homo/Hor agenda - do you know why??
I would like to know why, yes :D

This is an area i am uncertain where your coming from, so enlighten me ;)
 

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I don't know what you are referring to LMS, but I am in Europe right now. I thought that the issue was largely isolated to America, but I've talked to a few guys over here so far, and they act the same way... putting the pvssy on a pedestal. One of them (~19) just texted to his girlfriend last night about how much he loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her (sweet, yes), but... I asked if she had replied to that message, and he told me no.

Haha man...

American pop culture is cool all over Europe... the music, movies, etc. Girls seem to be pretty much the same everywhere. The ones I've met here are mind boggling good looking, but I have seen a lot of fat asses too, and that was another thing I did not expect.
 

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I don't know what you are referring to LMS, but I am in Europe right now. I thought that the issue was largely isolated to America, but I've talked to a few guys over here so far, and they act the same way... putting the pvssy on a pedestal. One of them (~19) just texted to his girlfriend last night about how much he loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her (sweet, yes), but... I asked if she had replied to that message, and he told me no...
Are you talking about guys in the UK? I noticed a ton of similarities between the guys there and those here in the states. However, while in Italy I was able to watch the power of male confidence and machismo on a societal level. Although I questioned males living with parents for so long, it was refreshing to see that it didn't affect their level of masculinity. Then again these were men at least 26 years old.
 

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that my husband tells the child "mom might not want us to watch another game."
why would he say anything about me not wanting them to watch the game?
Penny, many men have been trained to feel guilty for doing something they like without involving their partner.I've sen it time and time again.
The woman's main complaint is that they want "me" time.
They want ATTENTION from their partner.
And if the TV is getting more ATTENTION than the little woman, there's going to be a problem up in here....


That's how it is for most men in Marriages/LTRs.

They key is to have balance.
She should have stuff to do without him. And so he shoudl be better able to enjoy his alone "me" time without apprehension or guilt.
And they should have stuff to do together, without thie kids.
And they should have stuff together as a family.
And each parent should take each child alone with them and do something just with them alone.
This has to be done pretty much throught each month.
You have to make sure you are stauying connected to your partner, and to your kids.
The "me" time , alone or with your partner, and with your kids is extremely important.
In addition, you have to factor in getting together with buddies for him, and girlfriens for her.
So each partner has adult interaction , support, and bonds outside of the marriage/ltr itself.

I tell you what is wrong, ot's NOT making time for yourself, and making sure you have the intimacy bond strong and sure.
Always saying, "Oh we just dont have neough time, and with the klids...you know how it is these days. There's just not enough time."
No, there is ALWAYS enough time.
What I see lacking is the motivation, the will, and the desire to make the marriage a happy one, and the desire to really give the kids really sound, good role models to emulate.
"Look at dad. He's alway working out and eating healthy. He's always on time. He never loses his temper. He's always reading or studying something interesting..but he always has enough time and attention for us."

Same thing with the woman...she should also be trying to learn new things, be a little bit adventurous, and be a good role model for both the male and female children.
The little boy learns to see and discern what is a good woman, with Class, grace, character, and spunky attitude. The female learns what is a quality man...one who is calm, and under control.Always improving, learning new things. Who makes time for himself, and has a back bone. etc.

If you don;t make time for yourself and yor marriage , you become POOR Role Models for your children.

They begin to believe that they should give up their lives and identity and pursuits for them.
Yet, the parents make a mistake in sacrificing the very things that make them special and unique. The children will suffer from a lack of a good role model because of these things.
 
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