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Women are better than you! If you didn't hear this the first 500 times.. here is another:

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/study-men-falling-income-cites-133858056.html

You'll find tasty nuggets in this article like:

Men who are less successful are less attractive as partners, so some women are choosing to raise children by themselves

and:


One set of supplemental explanations holds that women are easier to educate or, as the journalist Hanna Rosin wrote in “The End of Men,” because women are more adaptable.
Oh..:D and:

the working world just has less and less use for these folks (men)
And the best one of all:

Instead of making marriage more attractive, he said, it might be better for society to help make men more attractive.
The idiot media strikes again.
 
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In 40 years we'll all be true OGs and everyone will laugh at us old fogies for saying such "idiotic" statements such as marriage is for men and women, men should not be dominated in family court, men should defend themselves when assaulted by women, soldiers are supposed to be men and ... the NFL should not have women. The whole notion of stay at home dads will become normal and the word housewife will be replaced by househusband. Its just how the western world is headed.
 

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Interesting article, which makes a very good point. There have been a lot of threads on this forum questioning why there has been an increase in the amount of manginas, and this article has a good explanation for it: The failure of the nuclear family and the increase of single parent families.

Of course the majority of children in single parent families are raised by women, since they are most likely to be given custody. So what we have here are a bunch of boys being brought up without a sufficient male role model - without a strong father figure. It's no wonder men are failing in life at such an unprecedented rate.
 

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A generation of men raised by women. So Jennifer Capriati stalked and assaulted her ex boyfriend. Here are some comments on yahoo -- geez the white knight fagg0ts are out in force

"My ex-girlfriend attempted to slap me but scratched my face instead. She told me if I had held still and taken it like a man, I wouldn't have gotten scratched. I never really thought of calling the cops."

"What a wuss ex-boyfriend presses charges for a thump on the chest? He needs to have his gender checked."

"She can stalk me & beat by chest ANYTIME!!"

"what a wuss! ''''waaahhhhh! she hit me i the chest while I was trying to work out! boo hoo!!!'"

"Heck, how much damage can a girl do? Let her be. I think it's kinda cute."

"Come on people... the x boyfriend is likely trying to get hooks into her cash. If that's the case or not, the guy is a serious weenie for pressing charges."

--- a ton more comments too that just show what alot of people are like out there. There were a few comments made by non white knight fagg0ts though mostly just talking trash about yahoo and its horrible reporting.

zekko said:
Interesting article, which makes a very good point. There have been a lot of threads on this forum questioning why there has been an increase in the amount of manginas, and this article has a good explanation for it: The failure of the nuclear family and the increase of single parent families.

Of course the majority of children in single parent families are raised by women, since they are most likely to be given custody. So what we have here are a bunch of boys being brought up without a sufficient male role model - without a strong father figure. It's no wonder men are failing in life at such an unprecedented rate.
 

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and with all that , most men I start talking with them about this subject look like they don't care at all and some of them get angry from these "misogynist" opinions .
 

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the masses of faggotized, ignorant, arrogant men will continue to be feeble wage slaves

...until they are slaughtered

and like tsunami victims they really will never see the wave that is coming

those of us who are wiser will seek higher ground and live free

In 15 years being male will be illegal, guilty on the day he is born....boys will be sent to work camps, prisons...women will abort sons rather than subject them to the cruelty of the state


now before anyone argues with me... :):):):)

slow down

look deep within yourself...do you believe what I say will not happen?
 

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Burroughs said:

the masses of faggotized, ignorant, arrogant men will continue to be feeble wage slaves

...until they are slaughtered

and like tsunami victims they really will never see the wave that is coming

those of us who are wiser will seek higher ground and live free

In 15 years being male will be illegal, guilty on the day he is born....boys will be sent to work camps, prisons...women will abort sons rather than subject them to the cruelty of the state


now before anyone argues with me... :):):):)

slow down

look deep within yourself...do you believe what I say will not happen?

lol
 

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The best way to deal with this girl power crap is to ignore it completely. Display your dominance by way of not giving a fvck.

Samspade also made a good point about hypergamy---women are complaining about the lack of "quality" men because they are closing the gap both socially and in terms of careers. The wage gap is kind of a farce now.

A good rule of the thumb and a simple way to understand the often esoteric concept of hypergamy is to just grasp the truth that women always want to date, mate, or marry someone better than themselves. That's hypergamy in a nutshell. You can build on that understanding by knowing that if she perceives she has an available option better than you, she is more likely to branch swing when that door is opened. Not a guarantee, some women are very loyal once bonded, but something to be aware of.

That's why you see relationships begin to unravel when the women surpasses the man in terms of success or the social ladder. Disparities only work in relationships when the man has the lion's share.


Remember: Women always want to be with a man who is stronger, smarter, wealthier, more responsible, more virtuous, and in general better than they are, at least in perception.
 

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Colossus said:
The best way to deal with this girl power crap is to ignore it completely. Display your dominance by way of not giving a fvck.

Samspade also made a good point about hypergamy---women are complaining about the lack of "quality" men because they are closing the gap both socially and in terms of careers. The wage gap is kind of a farce now.

A good rule of the thumb and a simple way to understand the often esoteric concept of hypergamy is to just grasp the truth that women always want to date, mate, or marry someone better than themselves. That's hypergamy in a nutshell. You can build on that understanding by knowing that if she perceives she has an available option better than you, she is more likely to branch swing when that door is opened. Not a guarantee, some women are very loyal once bonded, but something to be aware of.

That's why you see relationships begin to unravel when the women surpasses the man in terms of success or the social ladder. Disparities only work in relationships when the man has the lion's share.


Remember: Women always want to be with a man who is stronger, smarter, wealthier, more responsible, more virtuous, and in general better than they are, at least in perception.
True.. and feminism works strongly against this. Which is why feminism is so stupid. :D

This problem of entitlement with modern women will only keep getting worse (especially with the recession). Seems we might be returning to a point in history where the men on top share all the good women, while the "peasant" class men are only left with the fat, ugly and masculine women to fight over.

Women are "feminists" until the check comes. Sure we can all ignore the girl-power crap... but that's similar to saying: "ignore all the rats in your kitchen, eating your food". Men are where they are today because they kept "ignoring" the girl-power crap. And just like the rats in your kitchen.. they will be impossible to ignore once they've eaten ALL your food. :up:
 

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When I say "ignore" I dont mean tolerate bad behavior.

The way I see it is like this: the best any ONE man can do is to make better choices in the women he dates and to have a near-zero tolerance policy for bad behavior. The MRM is a joke. It's a bunch of smart, but embittered men who gather online and b!tch about how feminism is ruining marriage, society, and their lives. It's good to be aware, but b!tching and being in an echo-chamber of extremist opinions is a monumental waste of time.

So I dont think they are going to eat all of our food, as it were. By making good choices in women and not tolerating pvssy-power attitudes, you eliminate 75% of the crap that affects your life. The societal stuff, like workplace culture, TV and film, and marriage law is all stuff you have to live with to some extent. We just have to be aware of these disparities and adjust our game accordingly. They aren't going away anytime soon, no matter how intensely we rail against it online. So rather than bemoaning the state of the game, become better players.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Colossus said:
When I say "ignore" I dont mean tolerate bad behavior.

The way I see it is like this: the best any ONE man can do is to make better choices in the women he dates and to have a near-zero tolerance policy for bad behavior. The MRM is a joke. It's a bunch of smart, but embittered men who gather online and b!tch about how feminism is ruining marriage, society, and their lives. It's good to be aware, but b!tching and being in an echo-chamber of extremist opinions is a monumental waste of time.

So I dont think they are going to eat all of our food, as it were. By making good choices in women and not tolerating pvssy-power attitudes, you eliminate 75% of the crap that affects your life. The societal stuff, like workplace culture, TV and film, and marriage law is all stuff you have to live with to some extent. We just have to be aware of these disparities and adjust our game accordingly. They aren't going away anytime soon, no matter how intensely we rail against it online. So rather than bemoaning the state of the game, become better players.
I mostly agree with you. We have to adapt as men to live the best life possible under the current circumstances. That's what I've been doing.

However, I believe awareness is very important to keeping the situation from getting worse. Women got where they are today by "b!tching" if you really think about it. Men didn't take women all that seriously for a while because they are "women" after all. What can they possibly do? :crackup:

But men as a group need to draw the line in the sand somewhere. It starts with more men becoming aware. This is often accomplished (unfortunately) by "b!tching". If no one gets mad.. nothing changes and nothing is taken seriously.

If the same article was posted with the genders reversed.. women would have a heart attack. They would say: "How DARE you say women are not attractive! How DARE you say women are not adaptable! How DARE you say women are not useful!!"

Men are always the ones who need to "change". Why is that?
 
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So I dont think they are going to eat all of our food, as it were. By making good choices in women and not tolerating pvssy-power attitudes, you eliminate 75% of the crap that affects your life. .
You are neglecting the power of the state

The state can override all your so called *good choices* in a heartbeat

Women change....you might have noticed this :crackup:

And when they change within a relationship or marriage the full power of the state is on their side
...

now they have the advantage sanctioned by the police, courts, and state....what do you as a man making *good* choices have to do with this.

don't fool yourself...there is not a man alive who knows when a woman will go nuts...then you are at her mercy

If you believe otherwise :crackup:

You are a fool and deserve what you get.

Most men are fools...they believe in logical systems...and have no mental dexterity to deal with chaos and emotions..so they fail
 

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We maybe need to start writing letters/calling those companies that support or use men as the butt of jokes. call H and R Block and tell them that ad was offensive to you and you won't be using them this year. etc. If we don't make it painful, they won't change.
 

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Once a critical mass of men gets pissed off you'll see how the mices(hamsters) will stop playing, what this mad society doesnt understand is that women have a very low tolerance to unfairness coupled with a hugh herd mentality which results in women making groups and crying for anything not "nice".

Men on the contraty have a high tolerance to unfairned coupled with an individualistic instinct (due to the winner takes it all rule in a man world) which lead to almost no protest or rebellion untill the point of no return is reached and hell breaks out, ever heard of spree killers or lonely gunmen on rampage?

Yeah thats how men deal with frustration above a certain limit, this go gurl society is transforming any omega in a potential george sodini, and any divorced men who gets robbed and deprived of his kids in a potential william foster.

No wonder they are trying to take away your guns, they are the only tools to defend your rights and settle the score when the pendulum swing too far.
Plus you simply cant control someone if he can stand his ground.

And all this "strong empowered women" are not that different from the skinny weak guy bullying others just because his bigger bulky brother covers him (the big brother is out beloved gov of course).
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Once a critical mass of men gets pissed off you'll see how the mices(hamsters) will stop playing, what this mad society doesnt understand is that women have a very low tolerance to unfairness coupled with a hugh herd mentality which results in women making groups and crying for anything not "nice".

Men on the contraty have a high tolerance to unfairned coupled with an individualistic instinct (due to the winner takes it all rule in a man world) which lead to almost no protest or rebellion untill the point of no return is reached and hell breaks out, ever heard of spree killers or lonely gunmen on rampage?

Yeah thats how men deal with frustration above a certain limit, this go gurl society is transforming any omega in a potential george sodini, and any divorced men who gets robbed and deprived of his kids in a potential william foster.

No wonder they are trying to take away your guns, they are the only tools to defend your rights and settle the score when the pendulum swing too far.
Plus you simply cant control someone if he can stand his ground.

And all this "strong empowered women" are not that different from the skinny weak guy bullying others just because his bigger bulky brother covers him (the big brother is out beloved gov of course).
men may unite

or they may not

even on a site like this a fair number of men preach isolationist bravado..

the reality is even in the face of mounting encroachment by women/gov men's bravado and false pride has only increased

this false pride will destroy men because it is based on no real power or insight

men have become dulled to their own slavery

and blithering speak brave words that have no substance in reality
 

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Colossus said:
The best way to deal with this girl power crap is to ignore it completely. Display your dominance by way of not giving a fvck.

......


Remember: Women always want to be with a man who is stronger, smarter, wealthier, more responsible, more virtuous, and in general better than they are, at least in perception.
^^^

For the vast majority of human history, up until the creation of institutional thievery (democracy) men expressed their dominance by chasing wealth, and bedding broads when it was convenient.

In fact, the whole idea of a "seven year itch" is PROOF of this. Back during the days of hunters / gatherers, pair bonding would only last until junior was old enough to fend for himself.

Countless studies show that in plenty of cultures of varying levels of advancement, women are ALWAYS present in the family, while men are SOMETIMES present.

It's got nothing to do with "girl power" or any of that crap. It's because men bang women, and then leave. It's always been like that, and it will always be that way.

The leftist / feminist media can spin it any way they like, but men don't stick around with UGLY HAGS because they don't want to. They don't strive for high salaries jobs because THEY DON'T NEED TO.

Why bust your ass when there's NO NEED to support a wife and kids. Why not just make enough to get by and ENJOY LIFE?

If you old / ugly / unattractive / unwanted / ANGRY females FEEL BETTER by claiming this is all because of GIRL POWER, then go right ahead.

However, the only TRUE "girl power" is the power to give guys boners.

And that, you ain't got.
 

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It's because men bang women, and then leave. It's always been like that, and it will always be that way
If this is true, then why are the vast majority of divorces filed by women?

The truly powerful men in ancient days had multiple wives, and they didn't just fvck them and dump them, they made sure they were well cared for even as they aged. Of course in those days the life expectancy wasn't what it is now.

Burroughs said:
there is not a man alive who knows when a woman will go nuts.
True. That is what happened to my ex-wife, and that is why I'm divorced today.
 

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I was just thinking about something. It seems like women who are into you always have some degree of the fear of losing you. I'm not saying that a man has to give a woman reason to think he's going to sleep around on her or abandon her. If a woman has a strong bond and sexual attraction, there is always some fear in the back of her mind that other women are going to try to steal you from her.

Despite all of this girl-power garbage, you can't change how women think and feel on an instinctive level. If she starts acting like she could care less whether you're around or not and you're married to her, get all of your ducks in a row slowly, over time. Get yourself legally prepared. With women, you have to always be willing to walk away. Enjoy your stay but always be prepared to have one foot out of the door if necessary. The conditions for your happiness must be met consistently in order for you to stick around.

Burroughs said: "there is not a man alive who knows when a woman will go nuts."

Actually, there usually are warning signs ahead of time. Women really aren't that slick. She's going to start behaving differently before she "goes completely nuts". Things will gradually take a negative turn in some way. And the things that start changing in the negative will be consistent, persistent over time. Maybe you get into many more arguments than you used to. Maybe you start losing the connection you had with her. Things will FEEL differently. Maybe you can't stand the sight of her any more. Maybe she hates your guts or is constantly making insulting jabs at you. Maybe the sex isn't good any more or it happens a lot less than normal. Women might "go nuts" but there are usually red flags ahead of time. This is why you start getting yourself ready.

You have to be RUTHLESS when dealing with a ruthless enemy. Unfortunately, if it is getting to the point where the relationship is in serious trouble, you have to think of your soon-to-be ex wife as a ruthless enemy that will do everything in her power to steal from you for prolonged periods of time, via the power of the state. She won't care if her greed creates unnecessary hardships for you and prevents you from living a decent life. She will bleed you dry and let you suffer for years just so she can live a life of ease and luxury on YOUR dime while she is f*cking other men or starting a new family with someone else.

This is why I say, even if you love a woman with all of your heart, NEVER share certain information with her. NEVER share information with her that, when angry, she could use against you. Women do not play fair when they are angry. NEVER share with her anything that you're embarrassed about or ashamed of. NEVER share anything with her, that in itself is innocent but that could easily be twisted to appear to be something else. NEVER allow her to take a picture of you that could be twisted into being something that it isn't. Here's a silly example: Let's say you wanted to play a joke and pretend you were Vera (remember the character Jim Carey played, the female on steroids in a bikini?). So you just watched an old episode of In Living Color and thought it would be funny if you put on your wife's bikini and started talking in a deep voice like a bull-dyke bodybuilder on steroids. Don't do it. hahaha If you break up it will turn from "Hahaha. This is funny! This is my ex playing a joke." to "My ex was a perverted cross-dressing homo.".

I did an old friend a favor one time. He was drunk and in a compromised situation and his girlfriend/fiancee was about to take a picture. I put my hand in front of the camera and said with a laugh in my voice "You're not taking that picture.". She said "Come on!". I just laughed and said "No. Hahahah. Let the guy have some dignity.". She laughed and put the camera away.

Yes, share your thoughts and feelings with your wife or girlfriend. Just leave out the stuff that would put you at a disadvantage or that she would try to use against you if either 1) she were angry OR 2) you decided to split up. I can't stress this enough. I love women but women aren't so innocent. WOMEN ARE NOT INNOCENT. WOMEN DO NOT "PLAY FAIR". WOMEN ARE RUTHLESS! ESPECIALLY RUTHLESS IF THEY NO LONGER LIKE YOU! TAKE PREEMPTIVE MEASURES WHEN NECESSARY!
 

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Lots of good posts here and it will be very interesting to see how everything plays out.

What if over time gender identity's are lost? The terms male and female become lost. There would be no difference between men and women other than genitalia? After all, this world is a melting pot. Its already started happening with race. Black men are free to mate with white girls. White guys can bone Asian chics.

Its like we are mixing all of the colors together and at some point there will be only one color. Same with gender. Women are becoming more like men, and men are becoming more like women. The two genders are melting into one.

I hope this never happens, but I don't think you can rule it out as a possiblity.

As samspade said earlier, the price of pusssy is falling. Their is proof of that everywhere.

-Just look at your average $trip club. Guys have been tipping $1 bills for the last 15years. Lap dances haven't kept up with inflation either. Guys aren't buying as many either. The money isn't made on the stage anymore. Its made in the back room doing dirty deeds.

-Porn is everywhere and its free.

-Prostitutes are everywhere and are easy to find.

-Men aren't in a big hurry to get married.

-Modern day woman has little to offer a man other than whats between her legs. In old days, she cooked, cleaned, kept her mouth shut, and raised his children. Women do little of that today. As a result she has driven down her own value. Amazes me how many have no clue.

-Women are more open to one night stands than ever before. The negative connotation that society used to brand these "wh0res" with is no longer as strong. As a result they've decreased their own value.

You have to laugh at the feminist. As much as they've "advanced" women, they've also set them back in other areas.
 

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Lots of good posts here and it will be very interesting to see how everything plays out.

What if over time gender identity's are lost? The terms male and female become lost. There would be no difference between men and women other than genitalia? After all, this world is a melting pot. Its already started happening with race. Black men are free to mate with white girls. White guys can bone Asian chics.

Its like we are mixing all of the colors together and at some point there will be only one color. Same with gender. Women are becoming more like men, and men are becoming more like women. The two genders are melting into one.

I hope this never happens, but I don't think you can rule it out as a possiblity.

As samspade said earlier, the price of pusssy is falling. Their is proof of that everywhere.

-Just look at your average $trip club. Guys have been tipping $1 bills for the last 15years. Lap dances haven't kept up with inflation either. Guys aren't buying as many either. The money isn't made on the stage anymore. Its made in the back room doing dirty deeds.

-Porn is everywhere and its free.

-Prostitutes are everywhere and are easy to find.

-Men aren't in a big hurry to get married.

-Modern day woman has little to offer a man other than whats between her legs. In old days, she cooked, cleaned, kept her mouth shut, and raised his children. Women do little of that today. As a result she has driven down her own value. Amazes me how many have no clue.

-Women are more open to one night stands than ever before. The negative connotation that society used to brand these "wh0res" with is no longer as strong. As a result they've decreased their own value.

You have to laugh at the feminist. As much as they've "advanced" women, they've also set them back in other areas.
Interesting post.

Sex is the easiest thing the in the world to get in 2013.. BUT.... Love? Not so much. Trust? Not so much. Loyalty? Not so much. Deep bonding? Not so much. Traditional family? Not so much.

Men no longer have to wait for marriage to get sex. Men no longer have to kiss the ass of a girl's father to date her. Men no longer have to be chivalrous. The price we pay is the quality of the women has gone down.

Its like fast food. Cheap and accessible.. but low quality and unhealthy over time. Modern women have become fast food.
 
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