I was just thinking about something. It seems like women who are into you always have some degree of the fear of losing you. I'm not saying that a man has to give a woman reason to think he's going to sleep around on her or abandon her. If a woman has a strong bond and sexual attraction, there is always some fear in the back of her mind that other women are going to try to steal you from her.
Despite all of this girl-power garbage, you can't change how women think and feel on an instinctive level. If she starts acting like she could care less whether you're around or not and you're married to her, get all of your ducks in a row slowly, over time. Get yourself legally prepared. With women, you have to always be willing to walk away. Enjoy your stay but always be prepared to have one foot out of the door if necessary. The conditions for your happiness must be met consistently in order for you to stick around.
Burroughs said: "there is not a man alive who knows when a woman will go nuts."
Actually, there usually are warning signs ahead of time. Women really aren't that slick. She's going to start behaving differently before she "goes completely nuts". Things will gradually take a negative turn in some way. And the things that start changing in the negative will be consistent, persistent over time. Maybe you get into many more arguments than you used to. Maybe you start losing the connection you had with her. Things will FEEL differently. Maybe you can't stand the sight of her any more. Maybe she hates your guts or is constantly making insulting jabs at you. Maybe the sex isn't good any more or it happens a lot less than normal. Women might "go nuts" but there are usually red flags ahead of time. This is why you start getting yourself ready.
You have to be RUTHLESS when dealing with a ruthless enemy. Unfortunately, if it is getting to the point where the relationship is in serious trouble, you have to think of your soon-to-be ex wife as a ruthless enemy that will do everything in her power to steal from you for prolonged periods of time, via the power of the state. She won't care if her greed creates unnecessary hardships for you and prevents you from living a decent life. She will bleed you dry and let you suffer for years just so she can live a life of ease and luxury on YOUR dime while she is f*cking other men or starting a new family with someone else.
This is why I say, even if you love a woman with all of your heart, NEVER share certain information with her. NEVER share information with her that, when angry, she could use against you. Women do not play fair when they are angry. NEVER share with her anything that you're embarrassed about or ashamed of. NEVER share anything with her, that in itself is innocent but that could easily be twisted to appear to be something else. NEVER allow her to take a picture of you that could be twisted into being something that it isn't. Here's a silly example: Let's say you wanted to play a joke and pretend you were Vera (remember the character Jim Carey played, the female on steroids in a bikini?). So you just watched an old episode of In Living Color and thought it would be funny if you put on your wife's bikini and started talking in a deep voice like a bull-dyke bodybuilder on steroids. Don't do it. hahaha If you break up it will turn from "Hahaha. This is funny! This is my ex playing a joke." to "My ex was a perverted cross-dressing homo.".
I did an old friend a favor one time. He was drunk and in a compromised situation and his girlfriend/fiancee was about to take a picture. I put my hand in front of the camera and said with a laugh in my voice "You're not taking that picture.". She said "Come on!". I just laughed and said "No. Hahahah. Let the guy have some dignity.". She laughed and put the camera away.
Yes, share your thoughts and feelings with your wife or girlfriend. Just leave out the stuff that would put you at a disadvantage or that she would try to use against you if either 1) she were angry OR 2) you decided to split up. I can't stress this enough. I love women but women aren't so innocent. WOMEN ARE NOT INNOCENT. WOMEN DO NOT "PLAY FAIR". WOMEN ARE RUTHLESS! ESPECIALLY RUTHLESS IF THEY NO LONGER LIKE YOU! TAKE PREEMPTIVE MEASURES WHEN NECESSARY!