"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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More Field Reports, please!

Desdinova

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Hey guys, I've noticed a lot of you are posting questions on how to handle yourself on dates. That's all fine and dandy, but to make improvement, we need to know what you're doing wrong. Post Field Reports. In other words, write about what you did on your date, give key details on how you used kino on her, how you used ****y&funny, how you ended the date, etc.

The best way to learn is from the mistakes you make. Others here who are more experienced will help point you in the right direction if they see a problem in your game.

Remember, when you're just starting out, you're not going to be perfect on the first girl you date with your new knowledge. With every new girl you meet, you'll get a fresh start and know what NOT to do. Different women will also provide new and different challenges.

Good luck and have fun! I wanna see those Field Reports!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rogerman

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Exactly where do we post our field report?

A new thread in General forum will do?
 
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