"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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More Field Reports, please!

Desdinova

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Hey guys, I've noticed a lot of you are posting questions on how to handle yourself on dates. That's all fine and dandy, but to make improvement, we need to know what you're doing wrong. Post Field Reports. In other words, write about what you did on your date, give key details on how you used kino on her, how you used ****y&funny, how you ended the date, etc.

The best way to learn is from the mistakes you make. Others here who are more experienced will help point you in the right direction if they see a problem in your game.

Remember, when you're just starting out, you're not going to be perfect on the first girl you date with your new knowledge. With every new girl you meet, you'll get a fresh start and know what NOT to do. Different women will also provide new and different challenges.

Good luck and have fun! I wanna see those Field Reports!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rogerman

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Exactly where do we post our field report?

A new thread in General forum will do?
 
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