“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hummer47

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theres this chick in one of my classes (shes a perfect 10 by the way) anyway i have started to talk to her more and today i looked at her and she looked at me and smiled and giggled (this probably doesnt mean anyhing but hey, sweet) anyway the problem is that she has a b/f that is about 3 hours away and they are the type of the couple that could end up gettin married! So should i mack on this chick or not and if so what would be a good way to mack without scarin her off? thanks to all....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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*chuckles*

first thing... is the boyfriend bigger than you? Older than you? stronger than you? That's always a good question to ask ;) hehe...
 

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theres this chick in one of my classes (shes a perfect 10 by the way)

THERE ARE NO PERFECT 10s.

anyway i have started to talk to her more and today i looked at her and she looked at me and smiled and giggled (this probably doesnt mean anyhing but hey, sweet) anyway the problem is that she has a b/f that is about 3 hours away and they are the type of the couple that could end up gettin married! So should i mack on this chick or not and if so what would be a good way to mack without scarin her off? thanks to all....

Why have us make decisions for you when we know nothing about your personal capabilities. Sure, hit on her. Who cares?
 

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Well the thing is, most people who date in HS, and get married, get divorced pretty quickly so i am not sure about the marrige thing. but just ask her out, and pretend you didnt know she had a bf. if i am wrong about the second part, please dont flame me.
 

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i dont know i have never seen the dude but i know he couldnt hick my @$$ because i have been doin karate for about 8 years. and i highly doubt that he would drive 3 hours down here just to try to kick my @$$!! Any help:D
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DJ Girevik

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Originally posted by hummer47
i dont know i have never seen the dude but i know he couldnt hick my @$$ because i have been doin karate for about 8 years. and i highly doubt that he would drive 3 hours down here just to try to kick my @$$!! Any help:D
How about if he does Brazilian Jiu Jitsu?
 

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in that case, hit on her while her b/f is around and hopefully he will fight with you in front of the chick (which would show that he is somewhat insecure) and then you get to beat his ass...

Seriously though, don't let a boyfriend stop you from going after a chick. So many guys back off when they find out the girl they're after already has a b/f. The trick is to pretend that you dont know, and then when she throws out the "I have a b/f" line, come back with a smartass comment such as "Oh I don't mind" followed by a ****y grin. This always seems to get them in my lap. Just be creative, and don't worry about her dumb boyfriend.
 

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A DJ NEVER steals another guys girl no matter if he is an AFC. Period. This isn't a debate.
 

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What if he's a total jerk? Can u say kicking his ass is fair play, but going out with his girl isn't? Anyway- its her decision (theoreticaly). I can see I'm gonna get a hell of a flaming for this- but they're not married yet.
 

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No one is gonna stop me from getting my girl. Hell if I'm going to avoid girls just because I don't want to steal her from her boyfriend. I don't give a sh!t about those guys or anyone else for that matter. If she leaves him for me then that just shows you how strong their relationship was.

I'm not out to steal people's girls, I just worry about myself. I guess I'm not a true dj.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gaming111

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Think of it this way. If her relationship is THAT good, she'll turn you down when you ask her out. If she doesn't turn you down, her boyfriend obviously wasn't giving her something... So why shouldn't she go out with someone else? Also, if they really AREN'T compatible, it's better for them to break up now than to find out about it in 5 years when they're married and have a kid. So really, you're doing both of them a favor to ask her out.
 

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Originally posted by Quad4IV
A DJ NEVER steals another guys girl no matter...This isn't a debate.
*nods*

i gotta agree with Quad. If you're a real DJ then u dont need to "steal" cheap sluts that are willing to cheat on their boyfriends.
 

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Originally posted by dbot
I guess I'm not a true dj.
no, you are not. Especially if you keep that attitude of yours. A real DJ shows respect to the others around him, even though he can get any girl he want, he will try to avoid those who are in a relationship. Its like kharma, it will eventually bite you in the ass.
 
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