"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ascalon

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I wrote about my story a few days ago.But now i continue with my "novel" in order to ask you again for help.I spent really nice night with one girl before 2 weeks.I promised to call her and to see what are we gonna do with our relationship.She was away from town for 3-4 days,so by this time i realized i didnt like her.When she came back I asked you guys to tell me what to do.Someone told me the honesty is one of the most valuable properties that belong to honourable men.

Of course i didnt talk with her about this neither after 2 days,nor after 3,nor after 4. Now she is upset and a friend of hers told me i should finally speak to her. I am really nervous now because tomorrow we will meet 100% . What should I say now , when there is nothing left to say? I even can't look at her eyes!

I hope this time my english was faultless,so plss tell me what to do (I am not sure i can do anything at all), If I fail this conversation I will loose a lot!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tell her you want to remain friends, that you dont think you are ready for a relationship.
 

ascalon

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The simplest and the best way,but not the easiest. I am not of the those guys who are afraid to talk with girls,but i wonder what will happen if our good relationship becomes into hatred??? I usually spend a lot of time with her and it will be stupid to say only "hello" , "bye".

Damn,I began to attract girls I don't really like,am I becomming a real DJ?
 
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