"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wrote about my story a few days ago.But now i continue with my "novel" in order to ask you again for help.I spent really nice night with one girl before 2 weeks.I promised to call her and to see what are we gonna do with our relationship.She was away from town for 3-4 days,so by this time i realized i didnt like her.When she came back I asked you guys to tell me what to do.Someone told me the honesty is one of the most valuable properties that belong to honourable men.

Of course i didnt talk with her about this neither after 2 days,nor after 3,nor after 4. Now she is upset and a friend of hers told me i should finally speak to her. I am really nervous now because tomorrow we will meet 100% . What should I say now , when there is nothing left to say? I even can't look at her eyes!

I hope this time my english was faultless,so plss tell me what to do (I am not sure i can do anything at all), If I fail this conversation I will loose a lot!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tell her you want to remain friends, that you dont think you are ready for a relationship.
 
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The simplest and the best way,but not the easiest. I am not of the those guys who are afraid to talk with girls,but i wonder what will happen if our good relationship becomes into hatred??? I usually spend a lot of time with her and it will be stupid to say only "hello" , "bye".

Damn,I began to attract girls I don't really like,am I becomming a real DJ?
 
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