"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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More Americans Putting Off Marriage Until Ultimatum

Desdinova

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Yes it's The Onion, but I wouldn't be surprised if they're actually correct about this one:

http://www.theonion.com/articles/mo...ail&utm_term=0_6a8b5ad20e-a999e2d20f-16770557

“In the past, a marriage proposal was usually the result of a few months of indirect pressure, but increasingly we’re finding that what convinces a person to tie the knot is a nonnegotiable threat to end a years-long relationship,” said NCHS director Charles Rothwell, stating that more individuals are waiting until their partner breaks down in tears and says something along the lines of “I just can’t do this anymore” before asking for their hand in marriage.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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“Today, the decision to spend your life with someone is frequently made under duress, triggered by the recognition that you will lose this person forever if you don’t say yes to the all-or-nothing choice you have been presented with.” Rothwell added that more often than not, the ultimatums are issued by someone who has just found out yet another close friend from college is getting married.
Why can't they just come out and say that women pressure men to marry them lol?

I say let her leave, if a woman is in "love with you" she wants to BE with you. She will want to be with you in a cardboard box, she will want to be with you in a mansion, she will want to be with you at the hospital bed, she will want to be with you WHERE-EVER.

This concept that she "loves you so much" she has to break up with you because you won't marry her, is hogwash and a scam. It's a manipulation tactic on her part to get you to bend over and sign your life away WHILE she still have some sort of market value.

If you refuse to sign your life away, while her market value is still in place, she is going to opt out of the relationship with you and go find another svcker to sign on the dotted line before that market value slips away.

It's all manipulation people.
 

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Dear Des,
Yes all pretty right...The first time i gave in...the next time I laughed in her face...the difference?...Plates!
 
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