"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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more advice please

Slippery Sam

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k, so im at work talking to people having fun, when my friend is sitting with two girls at the break table and i see them looking at me. i smile and keep working. the two girls leave and my friend told me that the one i thought was hot wants to hook up with me. i looked around for her but she left the store, and my friend gave me her number because he said she wanted me to call her. i want to call but i just want to kno when? im thinking sunday to make plans for next weekend. and i would also like some date ideas cuz she's into the party scene and i would be, but i can't risk getting caught right now. also i have really protective parents so i probably cannot do the crazy things that most of the kids around my area do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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eaglez1177

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Im guessing this happened yesterday? I wouldnt call her the next day. I personally would probably call on Monday or Tuesday
 

Slippery Sam

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yea this happened friday night, posted it later when i got home. ill call tues i think, thanks for the tips
 
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