"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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more advice please

Slippery Sam

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k, so im at work talking to people having fun, when my friend is sitting with two girls at the break table and i see them looking at me. i smile and keep working. the two girls leave and my friend told me that the one i thought was hot wants to hook up with me. i looked around for her but she left the store, and my friend gave me her number because he said she wanted me to call her. i want to call but i just want to kno when? im thinking sunday to make plans for next weekend. and i would also like some date ideas cuz she's into the party scene and i would be, but i can't risk getting caught right now. also i have really protective parents so i probably cannot do the crazy things that most of the kids around my area do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eaglez1177

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Im guessing this happened yesterday? I wouldnt call her the next day. I personally would probably call on Monday or Tuesday
 

Slippery Sam

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yea this happened friday night, posted it later when i got home. ill call tues i think, thanks for the tips
 
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