"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ScrewIt

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Anyway this was a response to another post, but i thought i'd be good info to put into the tips section, enjoy!

What a lot of guys dont realize is that kino is an extremely powerful arsenal. Girls respond better to body language/action than they do words.

It varies from girl to girl, but some are so extremely sensitive to touch that their IL jumps 10 fold. with this girl in class, me and her usually talk but i never kinoed her. One day i just tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around and looked at me differently. The following day she asked me to coffee.

Certain chicks get kinoed so often by guys hitting on them, that they're just overdosed with oxytocin that it barely has an effect.
For a girl that's barely kinoed, and you kino her, it's like an overdose of drugs. If you're lucky sometimes this overdose can get them instantly wet.

There's innocent friendly kino, and there's intimate affection kino. If a girl's IL is high enough, she'll let you do the intimate kino.

But in most cases, it would be best to initiate kino early on. Or else you just end up in the LJBF zone. Girls will remember conversations (and you) better when you kino them.

My final piece of advice is: when you do start kino, start off light ..on the shoulder/arm/back. Dont go all out and put your arm around a girl unless you feel they wont be threatened by it.
This dude in one of my classes (he's a little cooky in the head if you ask me) he barely talks to these girls except once in a blue moon and the day he does talk to them, he goes all out (arm around shoulders/neck...poking them in the back with knuckles (some **** massage?) if i were them i'd definitely be freaked out.
but he doesnt get anywhere cause he doesnt build rapport, and just comes off as freaky/desperate.

So basically it has to come smoothly, steadily, confidently, and subconsciously. A quick 1 sec kino says "im afraid of my manlihood" , more than 5 secs says "im desperate to touch you"
friendly kino should last about 3 secs. Intimate kino can be as long as you want it to be.

There are certain errogenous zones for kino, such as the lips, hands, between the fingers, hip, behind the leg, inner joint of arm, neck, face (there's probably more but i dont remember it all)

I've noticed that the more kino you apply, the less game you'll need. i dont know if it applies to all girls, but from what i've experienced so far.

A lot of guys out there are pussies when it comes to kinoing women in general cause theyre not confident, and if you get this together i guarantee you youll be on a good start.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shiningshadow

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I find you need less game too. Not that I use less.
 
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