"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

More about KINO..!

ScrewIt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2004
Messages
1,769
Reaction score
2
Anyway this was a response to another post, but i thought i'd be good info to put into the tips section, enjoy!

What a lot of guys dont realize is that kino is an extremely powerful arsenal. Girls respond better to body language/action than they do words.

It varies from girl to girl, but some are so extremely sensitive to touch that their IL jumps 10 fold. with this girl in class, me and her usually talk but i never kinoed her. One day i just tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around and looked at me differently. The following day she asked me to coffee.

Certain chicks get kinoed so often by guys hitting on them, that they're just overdosed with oxytocin that it barely has an effect.
For a girl that's barely kinoed, and you kino her, it's like an overdose of drugs. If you're lucky sometimes this overdose can get them instantly wet.

There's innocent friendly kino, and there's intimate affection kino. If a girl's IL is high enough, she'll let you do the intimate kino.

But in most cases, it would be best to initiate kino early on. Or else you just end up in the LJBF zone. Girls will remember conversations (and you) better when you kino them.

My final piece of advice is: when you do start kino, start off light ..on the shoulder/arm/back. Dont go all out and put your arm around a girl unless you feel they wont be threatened by it.
This dude in one of my classes (he's a little cooky in the head if you ask me) he barely talks to these girls except once in a blue moon and the day he does talk to them, he goes all out (arm around shoulders/neck...poking them in the back with knuckles (some **** massage?) if i were them i'd definitely be freaked out.
but he doesnt get anywhere cause he doesnt build rapport, and just comes off as freaky/desperate.

So basically it has to come smoothly, steadily, confidently, and subconsciously. A quick 1 sec kino says "im afraid of my manlihood" , more than 5 secs says "im desperate to touch you"
friendly kino should last about 3 secs. Intimate kino can be as long as you want it to be.

There are certain errogenous zones for kino, such as the lips, hands, between the fingers, hip, behind the leg, inner joint of arm, neck, face (there's probably more but i dont remember it all)

I've noticed that the more kino you apply, the less game you'll need. i dont know if it applies to all girls, but from what i've experienced so far.

A lot of guys out there are pussies when it comes to kinoing women in general cause theyre not confident, and if you get this together i guarantee you youll be on a good start.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

shiningshadow

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2005
Messages
168
Reaction score
0
I find you need less game too. Not that I use less.
 
Top