"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Morals (attn: Maverick)

BMX

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My moral dilemma is, "Should I drink decaf or regular coffee?" Should I subject ppl to the me on caffeine or the morose me on decaf? Sadly, I have but 1 true friend, so it wouldn't matter if I were caffeinated or not and answering every question in class to the disgust of others. S***, you mean to tell me I'm not post #100, someone beat me?!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bmxcetera said:
My moral dilemma is, "Should I drink decaf or regular coffee?" Should I subject ppl to the me on caffeine or the morose me on decaf? Sadly, I have but 1 true friend, so it wouldn't matter if I were caffeinated or not and answering every question in class to the disgust of others. S***, you mean to tell me I'm not post #100, someone beat me?!!!!
I don't know, but it really sucks when you think you're being served real coffee and you get decaff instead. Avoid this moral trap at all costs!!:cuss:
 
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