Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fail moralfag. It sickens me that some people can find this site and still have this type of mindset. GTFOsyed said:You know it's wrong. Don't do it.
I don't care if it's legal or illegal. A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common. Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things. At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age. Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
Hahahahaha:crackup:scrouds said:Hit it man. Hard and fast, just remmeber with these sluts, glazed donut, not boston cream. Keep the filling on the outside.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree with some of the stuff you say up to the "baby" comment. I think a girl ceases to be a baby when her number of sexual partners reaches double digits. Besides, a 17 year old isn't a child.trent81 said:what kind of a perverted sht is this? Stop this, go get a woman, not a little girl. What's wrong with you. What type of relationship is this going to be? If you sleep with her, she will turn psycho. SHE IS A BABY. SHE IS YOUNG. YOU ARE A GROWN ASS MAN.
MyTeamSupreme said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This comment is just ironic. There is only one person claiming it is wrong amongst numerous comments like yours. I'm not saying syed is right, in fact I disagree with him, but his post doesn't stand out to me as a douche post compared to posts like yours. "Hit that ****! **** that *****, you have a ****, stick it in whatever you can!"zemaj said:Are you kidding me man!?!? HIT IT!!! if you dont, some other guy will, and he'll be loving it!!!!!
It's life man, its what we have c0cks for! to fvck hot chicks!!!
Im from UK, and legal consent is 16 also. Nothing wrong with screwing a girl 17 if shes up for it!! Ignore all the douches on here!