You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Fail moralfag. It sickens me that some people can find this site and still have this type of mindset. GTFOsyed said:You know it's wrong. Don't do it.
I don't care if it's legal or illegal. A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common. Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things. At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age. Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
Hahahahaha:crackup:scrouds said:Hit it man. Hard and fast, just remmeber with these sluts, glazed donut, not boston cream. Keep the filling on the outside.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I agree with some of the stuff you say up to the "baby" comment. I think a girl ceases to be a baby when her number of sexual partners reaches double digits. Besides, a 17 year old isn't a child.trent81 said:what kind of a perverted sht is this? Stop this, go get a woman, not a little girl. What's wrong with you. What type of relationship is this going to be? If you sleep with her, she will turn psycho. SHE IS A BABY. SHE IS YOUNG. YOU ARE A GROWN ASS MAN.
MyTeamSupreme said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This comment is just ironic. There is only one person claiming it is wrong amongst numerous comments like yours. I'm not saying syed is right, in fact I disagree with him, but his post doesn't stand out to me as a douche post compared to posts like yours. "Hit that ****! **** that *****, you have a ****, stick it in whatever you can!"zemaj said:Are you kidding me man!?!? HIT IT!!! if you dont, some other guy will, and he'll be loving it!!!!!
It's life man, its what we have c0cks for! to fvck hot chicks!!!
Im from UK, and legal consent is 16 also. Nothing wrong with screwing a girl 17 if shes up for it!! Ignore all the douches on here!