Moral dilema.

[int3l]

Okay so I've got a girlfriend, we've been exclusive for a little over 2 months now and it's not bad but I'm somewhat over it. It's weird, i like being around her and and when i'm with her she's great, I'm great, we click, It's good stuff! ... It's just that when i'm not around her i can't help but be thinking of other women that i know.

Specifically a friend of hers.

Now if i was a master DJ, or a complete jerk i guess I'd just dump the girl I'm with and pursue this new interest, or spin both at once... morally this just seems wrong to me. I just don't like cheating.

Knew i should have just made friends with benefits ...

anyway, I'm a little lost as to what to do. Part of me just wants to end it but i'm in a pretty small community and word spreads fast, it'll probably give me bad rep for a long while if i go about this the wrong way. The girlfriend also seems to be pretty into me, which sucks in this situation.

Thing is, the girlfriend might be moving away to another place that's an hour or so off in a few months. Should i just aim to slowly break it off then? Seems to be the safest option but this girlfriend thing is stopping me from actively pursuing more women. ..

Anyway I'd really appreciate some feedback or something, even if it is a statement to suck it up or something, haha.

Thanks~

 

[Infamous_Wolf]

There is a problem with your viewpoint. You are worried what people may think about you. You need to become immune to the opinions and forced whims of others. Care about people, stop caring what they think about you. If you spent your whole life worried about if someone would disapprove, you wouldn't get anything done because there will always be someone who disapproves. You can go about this however you like, but a girl has a very sensitive array of instruments at her disposal to judge and gauge you with. She might just be able to figure out that you're just trying to get rid of her without a fuss and make one to spite you.

 

[Obey Propaganda]

If you have other girls on your mind and want to end the relationship, that's your decision, but be honest about it and tell her. You wouldn't want a girl cheating on you, so why do it to her?

 

[KontrollerX]

Just persue the other girl while still with your current girlfriend and once you've established the new chick to be a stable branch swing on over to her and then dump your current girlfriend.

That way you never go without pvssy.

 

[Al Moh.]

like you said, it´s a moral dilemma. You should check were this moral comes from. Did someone just tell you it´s bad to cheat or branch swing? Or is this really your honest oppinion? In the first case I would go with KontrollerX´s advice. Personally I don´t like cheating or branch swinging because it seems desperate for me. If a relationship isn´t right I end it, I don´t care if there are other options, I´ll go for them when I´m done with this one (actively going for them, of couse you can warm some girl up when yur in a relationsip

 

[Skydiver43127]

i'm in a pretty small community

This is your core problem. Most advice on sosuave assumes you have access to indefinite number of new opportunities.