"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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montreal wingmen?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dee-Zy

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I live downtown and so does nishbuk, so we go out pretty often between 1-3 times a week. Mostly in the St-laurent area.
 

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I'm going to montreal for my vacation in March:p

What can I expect when I get there?
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
I'm going to montreal for my vacation in March:p

What can I expect when I get there?

the hottest women in North America.


No jokes, I was talking to some ppl and there was like this article that claimed mtl had the second most beautiful women on the planet. Behind some exotic place. Forgot.


Now, I'm not sure I completely agree with that, but I will say that mtl women are hooooooooooooot. Very cold too if they don't know you. What do you expect eh?

My only pet peeve is that there aren't enough blondes here. mtl is quite european (like mediterean europe) so a lot of dark features.
:down:
 

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"I live downtown and so does nishbuk"

These guys are real and really cool to hang with! Take on the offer to meet them.

There is also the lair that is an awesome way to meet other guys from Montreal interessed in seduction.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kanada, e-mail with who you are...If we've met, I'd like to know whose talkin' back! :p

Peace.
 

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Montreal Wingman

Hi all
I still have a lot to learn and Improve on, but I am your montreal Wingman If you need one.
French/English/spanish Spoken
Will go anywhere if I can Make time
[email protected]
 

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McGill Coast

Hey,

I'm trying to constitute a bilingual McGill Stud crew for september 2006... Since "The Game", there are several girls recognizing routines like voice tone hypnosis and knowing slang (AFC...).
Practice makes perfect.

Crazycat
 

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I live in Montreal too.

I've been watching/reading/listening to alot of material lately and it only started to sink in. I've been trying cold approaches here and there with the summer being back in Montreal. Anyone feel free to email me or contact me to discuss, go out and have a blast. I'm really alone in doing this right now in my circle of friends and I've been skeptical sharing my views because none of them want anything to do with it. I need some real motivation and am open to new ideas etc. So feel free to email or pm me.

[email protected]
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dee-Zy

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FetaZ said:
I've been watching/reading/listening to alot of material lately and it only started to sink in. I've been trying cold approaches here and there with the summer being back in Montreal. Anyone feel free to email me or contact me to discuss, go out and have a blast. I'm really alone in doing this right now in my circle of friends and I've been skeptical sharing my views because none of them want anything to do with it. I need some real motivation and am open to new ideas etc. So feel free to email or pm me.

[email protected]


le phong? You're viet?
 

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any wingmen to hit clubs or parties, im 23 and live in downtown...
 

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MXMZE said:
any wingmen to hit clubs or parties, im 23 and live in downtown...
Hey man, I am in Halifax, NS. I have heard so much about Montreal and will be moving there later when I am done with school. How long have you been living there and do you have to be very fluent in French to relate with the people?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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