Susceptible
Don Juan
Hmm, people from Montreal. Interesting. Where in Montreal do you people live? Anyone speak french?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jhabite à 20 minutes de montréal. Malheureusement je pense que je suis un des seuls qui parle bien français, lol.Originally posted by Susceptible
Hmm, people from Montreal. Interesting. Where in Montreal do you people live? Anyone speak french?
Ah ouin, mais t'habite ou exactement? Lol, la plupart parlent juste anglais mais tk, c'est pas grave. Ah, sa fait bizarre..Originally posted by Eulogy
Jhabite à 20 minutes de montréal. Malheureusement je pense que je suis un des seuls qui parle bien français, lol.
J'habite à mont-saint-hilaire, 30 minutes de MTL.Originally posted by Susceptible
Ah ouin, mais t'habite ou exactement? Lol, la plupart parlent juste anglais mais tk, c'est pas grave. Ah, sa fait bizarre..
Ah, j'connais po cette place. T'a déja rencontré du monde de ce site? ..Tout le monde a l'air de se connaitre. Ta quel age?Originally posted by Eulogy
J'habite à mont-saint-hilaire, 30 minutes de MTL.
Faire des pickup en français est un tout autre jeu, jtel dit!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
J'ai 17. Moi et 3 autres personnes du site vont bientot se rencontrer pour tenter des pickup CETTE SEMAINE a mtl. Si tu es interesséé add moi sur MSN.Originally posted by Susceptible
Ah, j'connais po cette place. T'a déja rencontré du monde de ce site? ..Tout le monde a l'air de se connaitre. Ta quel age?
Originally posted by Susceptible
Hmm, people from Montreal. Interesting. Where in Montreal do you people live? Anyone speak french?
Sweet. Gheto. Milton and Durocher. I'm also out of town until Sep 4th.Originally posted by Dee-Zy
21, Mcgill Ghetto (Downtown).
Alboh pis JBbrain sont de mtl aussi, mais ca fait un bail que j'ai entendu parler de JB, pis Alboh a perdu tout espoir de ssv.
Chu a San Diego pour l'instant mais je reviens le 30, p-e ma vous rencontrer.
DZ
21, eh? I was under the impression you were an old geezer, don't know how I came up with that. :crackup:Originally posted by Dee-Zy
21, Mcgill Ghetto (Downtown).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by nishbuk
Sweet. Gheto. Milton and Durocher. I'm also out of town until Sep 4th.
Originally posted by Eulogy
21, eh? I was under the impression you were an old geezer, don't know how I came up with that. :crackup:
Sounds like you've got some serious game, if you've been doing this since you were 16.Originally posted by Dee-Zy
You're on milton and durocher?
nice, I need to meet more ppl from the neighbourhood. When I say people I mean hot spoiled blonde chick from Mcgill that has everything payed for them, but ...
I guess knowing a guy would be a start....
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Originally posted by nishbuk
Sounds like you've got some serious game, if you've been doing this since you were 16.
Me, I've only been here for a year or so, and I used to be a shy and unsmiling guy. Alot has changed since then, but I need to work on my Cold approaches. What are you studying?
Me = Physics and Physiology.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by nishbuk
No...But I am in Physio.(Trust me, it's where the good are in Science)
Just mvoed to the ghetto. so no. I have roomates. :/Originally posted by Dee-Zy
so do you know hot girls in the ghetto or not????
and do you live by yourself or with roomates?