Susceptible
Don Juan
Hmm, people from Montreal. Interesting. Where in Montreal do you people live? Anyone speak french?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Montreal, Canada
- Thread starter Atyss
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Susceptible
Don Juan
Ah ouin, mais t'habite ou exactement? Lol, la plupart parlent juste anglais mais tk, c'est pas grave. Ah, sa fait bizarre..
Susceptible
Don Juan
Ah, j'connais po cette place. T'a déja rencontré du monde de ce site? ..Tout le monde a l'air de se connaitre. Ta quel age?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
J'ai 17. Moi et 3 autres personnes du site vont bientot se rencontrer pour tenter des pickup CETTE SEMAINE a mtl. Si tu es interesséé add moi sur MSN.
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a bientot
I want in, but too bad I'm an anglo. BUT I can still understand everything you write here. 
Yeah it does suck that there aren't more french speakers. One of the reasons I decided to go to school here is for that exact reason. Too bad, I'm too busy to make an effort to actually learn french. If you guys still want to sarge, I'm still up for it.
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22, North American Born Brown Guy, Monolingual English.
Yeah it does suck that there aren't more french speakers. One of the reasons I decided to go to school here is for that exact reason. Too bad, I'm too busy to make an effort to actually learn french. If you guys still want to sarge, I'm still up for it.[email protected]
22, North American Born Brown Guy, Monolingual English.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
21, Mcgill Ghetto (Downtown).
Alboh pis JBbrain sont de mtl aussi, mais ca fait un bail que j'ai entendu parler de JB, pis Alboh a perdu tout espoir de ssv.
Chu a San Diego pour l'instant mais je reviens le 30, p-e ma vous rencontrer.
DZ
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
You're on milton and durocher?
nice, I need to meet more ppl from the neighbourhood. When I say people I mean hot spoiled blonde chick from Mcgill that has everything payed for them, but ...
I guess knowing a guy would be a start....
Sounds like you've got some serious game, if you've been doing this since you were 16.Originally posted by Dee-Zy
You're on milton and durocher?
nice, I need to meet more ppl from the neighbourhood. When I say people I mean hot spoiled blonde chick from Mcgill that has everything payed for them, but ...
I guess knowing a guy would be a start....
Me, I've only been here for a year or so, and I used to be a shy and unsmiling guy. Alot has changed since then, but I need to work on my Cold approaches. What are you studying?
Me = Physics and Physiology.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by nishbuk
Sounds like you've got some serious game, if you've been doing this since you were 16.
Me, I've only been here for a year or so, and I used to be a shy and unsmiling guy. Alot has changed since then, but I need to work on my Cold approaches. What are you studying?
Me = Physics and Physiology.
meh, I still have alot of things to learn and alot of rust that I still can't brush off.
I'm in Concordia in mass communications ... damn, I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that you don't know any hot girls in the ghetto???
too bad you are not in psych ...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by nishbuk
No...But I am in Physio.
so do you know hot girls in the ghetto or not????
and do you live by yourself or with roomates?