To get really low bodyfat you need to almost completely drop your carbs, eat really high quality proteins/fats and do a ton of cardio while drinking 1-2gallons of water/day to flush out every bit of crappy waste.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Quagmire911 said:If you are truly 9% then you won't look or indeed shouldn't feel fat at all. DO NOT develop anorexia issues, there is a guy over on IA's combating that right now and it isn't pretty what it can do.
Don't worry about adding a few pounds or losing a few pounds. As long as you are in the same range with a consistent bf of 9-10% who cares?
As for cheat meals these are actually a good thing. Not only psychologically but they help to rev up the metabolism.
Keep it up anyway,
Quagmire
One pound a week? Hmm, that seems about average. Well, as long as I get the rest of this body fat off and stay in the 150s class I know I'm on track.Quagmire911 said:You should be able to get away with cereal as long as it is for breakfast, not ideal though and you won't be able to lose fat as easily.
How much muscle people gain depend on a bunch of factors. For someone of your weight around a pound a week would be a good bet.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nope.Quagmire911 said:Are you using a carb cutoff?
http://phonedifferent.com/images/2007/09/homer_doh.pngBeing_the_Don said:Nope.
Quagmire911 said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrRuckus said:You are 155 lbs. Why are you trying to lose weight especially if you are like 8% bf?
You can't possibly be fat and i'd wager to guess you'd look better with 20-30-40 lbs added to you.
I've been 140-150 lbs before. I did not look good.
I mean do what you want, but I don't understand.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.