To get really low bodyfat you need to almost completely drop your carbs, eat really high quality proteins/fats and do a ton of cardio while drinking 1-2gallons of water/day to flush out every bit of crappy waste.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Quagmire911 said:If you are truly 9% then you won't look or indeed shouldn't feel fat at all. DO NOT develop anorexia issues, there is a guy over on IA's combating that right now and it isn't pretty what it can do.
Don't worry about adding a few pounds or losing a few pounds. As long as you are in the same range with a consistent bf of 9-10% who cares?
As for cheat meals these are actually a good thing. Not only psychologically but they help to rev up the metabolism.
Keep it up anyway,
Quagmire
One pound a week? Hmm, that seems about average. Well, as long as I get the rest of this body fat off and stay in the 150s class I know I'm on track.Quagmire911 said:You should be able to get away with cereal as long as it is for breakfast, not ideal though and you won't be able to lose fat as easily.
How much muscle people gain depend on a bunch of factors. For someone of your weight around a pound a week would be a good bet.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nope.Quagmire911 said:Are you using a carb cutoff?
http://phonedifferent.com/images/2007/09/homer_doh.pngBeing_the_Don said:Nope.
Quagmire911 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrRuckus said:You are 155 lbs. Why are you trying to lose weight especially if you are like 8% bf?
You can't possibly be fat and i'd wager to guess you'd look better with 20-30-40 lbs added to you.
I've been 140-150 lbs before. I did not look good.
I mean do what you want, but I don't understand.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.