Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heres another one for the retarded vote. I used to justify the stupidity of monogamy by telling myself the old argument that men are not physically and mentally designed to be monogamous but nowadays I just think fvck it I'm too good for just 1 b!tch, even if the other thing is true (which it is).
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In other words the lady cant breakdown szof's post logically.Originally posted by frivolousz21
Bingo, if I ever needed a 3rd reason to stay polygamous this is it.
being married doenst make you a beta male.....being so weak that you have be anti-female, yet still desire women more then anything else...makes u beta
can u please provide proof that all women as you have stated do this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No dice, what specific part of his post didnt you agree with and WHY.
"More than anything else" lol take it easy queen of the drama.Originally posted by frivolousz21
being so weak that you have be anti-female, yet still desire women more then anything else...makes u beta
u know if anyone is on a message board like this...women are probably the most important thing to them..so to be anti women....doenst really make sense...to be objective makes sense.
So whats that? ******** to get off topic so you dont have to answer the question, suprise suprise.