"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im starting to think, the idea of being with one person is just plain stupid. Either I cheat, or the girl does. Never fails. Whats your idea on this. On my friends whos all into psychology thinks the idea of getting married ever is just plain retarded.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I suppose so, It just seems that every girl in this town I have dated, ends up being a complete wank. It also appears every girl that would never cheat on me. I end up not liking. And visa versa. Maybe its a whole need a challenge thing. Im not even sure of myself.
 

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Originally posted by hungry_american
On my friends whos all into psychology thinks the idea of getting married ever is just plain retarded.
Heres another one for the retarded vote. I used to justify the stupidity of monogamy by telling myself the old argument that men are not physically and mentally designed to be monogamous but nowadays I just think fvck it I'm too good for just 1 b!tch, even if the other thing is true (which it is).
 

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Monogamy turns men into beta males. Beta male existence was fine when it was enforced through social laws, but that's no longer. Women have reverted to their polygamous roots and we should not be so stupid to be satisfied with tier two status in the sexual hierarchy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monogamy turns men into beta males. Beta male existence was fine when it was enforced through social laws, but that's no longer. Women have reverted to their polygamous roots and we should not be so stupid to be satisfied with tier two status in the sexual hierarchy.
:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
In other words the lady cant breakdown szof's post logically.

Women have reverted to their polygamous roots and we should not be so stupid to be satisfied with tier two status in the sexual hierarchy.
Bingo, if I ever needed a 3rd reason to stay polygamous this is it.
 

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No wonder America is so ****ed up, your parents had a ****ed up relationship and so will you because you learned it from them.

No its not a feminist conspiracy like they say here in thousands of threads, its just your screwed up lifestyle thats warping everything.
 

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You'll have to get all of the partying and one-night-fvcking out of your system before you're able to invest your effort in a relationship. You'll also have to screen through barrells of lunatic broads who have issues of their own before you'll find one that is worth trusting and out of her partying period. This is why communication is extremely important.

I was the biggest scumbag around for 5 years. Last year I met my girlfriend and we have an extremely trusting, monogamous relationship. I love every minute of it.
 

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In other words the lady cant breakdown szof's post logically.
being married doenst make you a beta male.....being so weak that you have be anti-female, yet still desire women more then anything else...makes u beta :)



Women have reverted to their polygamous roots and we should not be so stupid to be satisfied with tier two status in the sexual hierarchy.
can u please provide proof that all women as you have stated do this?

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No wonder America is so ****ed up, your parents had a ****ed up relationship and so will you because you learned it from them.

No its not a feminist conspiracy like they say here in thousands of threads, its just your screwed up lifestyle thats warping everything.


Bingo.....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
being married doenst make you a beta male
No dice, what specific part of his post didnt you agree with and WHY.

Originally posted by frivolousz21
being so weak that you have be anti-female, yet still desire women more then anything else...makes u beta :)
"More than anything else" lol take it easy queen of the drama.
 

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"More than anything else" lol take it easy queen of the drama.
u know if anyone is on a message board like this...women are probably the most important thing to them..so to be anti women....doenst really make sense...to be objective makes sense.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
u know if anyone is on a message board like this...women are probably the most important thing to them..so to be anti women....doenst really make sense...to be objective makes sense.
So whats that? ******** to get off topic so you dont have to answer the question, suprise suprise.
 

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The issue here has a lot to do with conditioning and association. It's very much like associating most Chinese to either be really book smart or to know martial arts. Or even associating African Americans to violent crimes. Although statistics may prove your assumptions to be generally accurate, it does not help the fact that your initial behaviour towards those that do not fall into this generalisation will be biased.

Like with the idea of marriage. Statistics shows that it generally fails. So why should you even bother getting into this mess? This is exactly why the reason people get married is vitally important. You don't get married because you're afraid the other person is gonna deviate. You don't get married so that your partner won't move somewhere else. You don't get married because the two of you got pregnant.

Marriage is the assumption that what the two of you have is special and not some normal general feeling that most people get married for.

So, the question is not whether people can be monogamous or not. I believe anyone can. The thing to ask is why should you shut that option completely out of your life? Who knows man, you might find a really nice girl and she could be a really good wife, but your mind is always gonna start putting doubts in your head like 'she's probably gonna change' or 'she's still a girl and they're all the same'. Stop limiting yourself. It's just like saying 'she probably doesn't find a guy like me attractive'.
 
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