"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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Hey you guys.
Do you have any ideas on how to make money?
Something other than getting a job.
Maybe like something where i'm making a profit but also doing something good.

The reason is i need around 5000- 6000 dollars for a violin, and i hate asking my parents to buy me stuff. So if i could raise like $1000 by the end of summer 2008..... and maybe they could pay the rest, but i'd feel better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Crazy Asian said:
...Do you have any ideas on how to make money?
Something other than getting a job. ...
Make money without working??....
 

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A job is the most solid way to make money, but you could try doing work for your neighbors and adults you know. Winter is coming up so you may have some luck shoveling driveways... lol come to think of it, you could rake some leaves and maybe mow lawns if you can find the customers.
There isn't really a lot though unless you're into business meaning basically betting and buying stocks. Make sure to bank all of your money though, it's useless to just be carrying around all of that stuff.

Or I guess you could buy a used violin if you wanted.. lol

But if all else fails, you could join the prostitute industry :p
 

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haha used violins actually cost more than new ones.
 

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Haha this post is funny. You want money but don't want to work. Well I guess the only option is either to go to the casino and hope you come out big or steal a violin or money.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crazy Asian

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the reason i don't want to work is because i won't be able to get the money fast enough.

and my parents won't let me get a job cause they think it'll effect my grades.

but maybe i could get a job over the summer and slowly pay them back?
 

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The Sperminator said:
Haha this post is funny. You want money but don't want to work. Well I guess the only option is either to go to the casino and hope you come out big or steal a violin or money.
I would have suggest stealing the money to but that wouldn't be making it. DUH, if we wants to make money, he should counterfeit it. But wait.... That would be work....

Damn Asian, you're screwed.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
The reason is i need around 5000- 6000 dollars for a violin, and i hate asking my parents to buy me stuff. So if i could raise like $1000 by the end of summer 2008..... and maybe they could pay the rest, but i'd feel better.
Please don't think this is trivial, because it is not. You want a violin, not need a violin. If you think you know this, I say you do not. Anyone that knows this as well as they should, always states it correctly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HandyAndy said:
Just dont ask for a car :p :nono:
What?? Haven't you seen the latest Fast and the Furious? They'll have him a ricer parked outside the moment he hits 16.

:crackup:
 

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sell your sh!t off craigslist or ebay. that's what i use to do when i needed money... anything i can find. you'll be surprise to what you can sell if you just look around the house.
 

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joey2times said:
What the fvck does this have to do with dating?
Yea

Why are u posting topics like this

Go post in anything else:down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crazy Asian said:
Hey you guys.
Do you have any ideas on how to make money?
Something other than getting a job.

The reason is i need around 5000- 6000 dollars for a violin


4, 11, 24, 31, 33, 47 Bonus 15

Those numbers can get you money without working.


A violin? Talk about a chick magnet instrument.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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