"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hera

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Happy Holidays!

I have encountered a few men who enjoy discussing how much money they have in the bank, how much they make, etc. The first time I met this one guy, he casually mentioned within the first 20 minutes that he owned a horse. :nervous:

What are some thoughts on guys who do this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have met such men, too. They scream lack of confidence. Actually, the right way to expose them would be a friendly pat on the back, followed by "all right, flop him out and let's see if MY horse is bigger than yours."
 
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I could tell you how much I made last year and how much I have in various accounts. But my parents raised me that it was inappropriate to tell other people how much you make and have. So I've never told anyone what I make or how much I have saved and invested.

Other people though, may not think that way. I know this one guy, and within the first day I talked to him, he told me how much he made and how much he had in his retirement accounts. Was he bragging? Probably, but he had to know I made more than he did, so I don't know. He's just a very extroverted person.

To me, it's inappropriate. But I've known a lot of people who tell you what they make or how much they manage to sock away. A lot of the time it sounds like bragging, so to me that makes it even more inappropriate. But there are a lot of people like that out there, so I'd be interested in hearing their point of view.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you don't give a fvck then this won't matter and there will be no comparing between your life and others but some people need that feeling of inferiority to do something in there lives.

everything in this life is based on your perspective and everyone has a different perspective but most people have mass media and social common **** perspective.

until you know who you truly are whatever move those around you will move you too.
 
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