"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hera

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Happy Holidays!

I have encountered a few men who enjoy discussing how much money they have in the bank, how much they make, etc. The first time I met this one guy, he casually mentioned within the first 20 minutes that he owned a horse. :nervous:

What are some thoughts on guys who do this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have met such men, too. They scream lack of confidence. Actually, the right way to expose them would be a friendly pat on the back, followed by "all right, flop him out and let's see if MY horse is bigger than yours."
 
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I could tell you how much I made last year and how much I have in various accounts. But my parents raised me that it was inappropriate to tell other people how much you make and have. So I've never told anyone what I make or how much I have saved and invested.

Other people though, may not think that way. I know this one guy, and within the first day I talked to him, he told me how much he made and how much he had in his retirement accounts. Was he bragging? Probably, but he had to know I made more than he did, so I don't know. He's just a very extroverted person.

To me, it's inappropriate. But I've known a lot of people who tell you what they make or how much they manage to sock away. A lot of the time it sounds like bragging, so to me that makes it even more inappropriate. But there are a lot of people like that out there, so I'd be interested in hearing their point of view.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you don't give a fvck then this won't matter and there will be no comparing between your life and others but some people need that feeling of inferiority to do something in there lives.

everything in this life is based on your perspective and everyone has a different perspective but most people have mass media and social common **** perspective.

until you know who you truly are whatever move those around you will move you too.
 
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