I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This quote has been abused and changed to fit people agenda for so long and its a big fat lie as they leave out the part "for the love of" part of the sentence; so it makes money look like a really bad thing. It is all a bunch of complete BS.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Much of the wisdom and stories are timeless and applicable to any era. They also "knew about women", man was warned not to be stupid and weak behind women.
True too. The old books are a good read whether you are religious or not. You can still find good things to learn from them.
yeah I suspect a lot of people who use (the truncated version) are jealous of those that have money.
Yep, indeed.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
'I don't like that bar its full of stuck up people' = Full of attractive people who I believe have no chance with - out of my league'.
Actually the ones that are most flashy/the worst ones in my experience are the ones that are not really rich, but "wanna-be-rich"; so they buy the stupid Rolex, Cartier (or whatever), expensive clothes, cars etc on credit, (and brag about it), because they think that they have to behave like that because that is the image that society sells them, (Because that is how wealthy people behave, right?).
Amen to that. It is very true.
At least somebody gets it
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
