She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
This quote has been abused and changed to fit people agenda for so long and its a big fat lie as they leave out the part "for the love of" part of the sentence; so it makes money look like a really bad thing. It is all a bunch of complete BS.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Much of the wisdom and stories are timeless and applicable to any era. They also "knew about women", man was warned not to be stupid and weak behind women.
True too. The old books are a good read whether you are religious or not. You can still find good things to learn from them.
yeah I suspect a lot of people who use (the truncated version) are jealous of those that have money.
Yep, indeed.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
'I don't like that bar its full of stuck up people' = Full of attractive people who I believe have no chance with - out of my league'.
Actually the ones that are most flashy/the worst ones in my experience are the ones that are not really rich, but "wanna-be-rich"; so they buy the stupid Rolex, Cartier (or whatever), expensive clothes, cars etc on credit, (and brag about it), because they think that they have to behave like that because that is the image that society sells them, (Because that is how wealthy people behave, right?).
Amen to that. It is very true.
At least somebody gets it
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
