"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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money does not make the man

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You could positionally trade the NDX/QQQ, by waiting for the breakthrough highs (like now), followed by the big dip, buy and hold to resistance. You can't time these dips and retrace. Might be 6 mos; might be 6 yrs.

I'd rather lend hard money at 12% per annum + 2pts + other "fees" totaling 15%+ per year, collateralized against R/E. Or even better, buy a short sale at 40% discount or apt building (5 units+) at a 5% net cap with rent-stabilized tenants who could be bought out with apts placed back at market rent (200% higher in most cases than the rent-stabilized rent), increasing the commercial value to instant 100%+ over a 12-18 month time frame (offers, buyouts, renovation). Much stronger, securer investment vehicles than the stock market, sitting here with my thumb in my mouth waiting for the next home run based on past performance which is in no way indicative of future performance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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