"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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money does not make the man

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You could positionally trade the NDX/QQQ, by waiting for the breakthrough highs (like now), followed by the big dip, buy and hold to resistance. You can't time these dips and retrace. Might be 6 mos; might be 6 yrs.

I'd rather lend hard money at 12% per annum + 2pts + other "fees" totaling 15%+ per year, collateralized against R/E. Or even better, buy a short sale at 40% discount or apt building (5 units+) at a 5% net cap with rent-stabilized tenants who could be bought out with apts placed back at market rent (200% higher in most cases than the rent-stabilized rent), increasing the commercial value to instant 100%+ over a 12-18 month time frame (offers, buyouts, renovation). Much stronger, securer investment vehicles than the stock market, sitting here with my thumb in my mouth waiting for the next home run based on past performance which is in no way indicative of future performance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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